DISQUS

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  • JohnAtkinson · 5 months ago
    Drew - Met you at Blogworld last year and ran into you at SXSW 09.

    Although we only talked for a few minutes, your infectious zest for life jumped right out.

    Dear Cancer: pack up your shit and go home - you got no chance.
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Best. Comment. Ever.

    Thanks John, we'll cross paths again very soon :)
  • danibear85 · 1 month ago
    I just reached my 8th year of remission of Hodgkin's! I was 15 when I was diagnosed with stage 2. Thank you for this! It is wonderful to read everyone elses experience and knowing we're not alone! Only a few more weeks for you to go! I'm rooting for you!
  • Jessica K. · 3 months ago
    One month after we were engaged my "now" husband was diagnosed with Burkitt's Lymphoma. We were engaged on March 21, by April 26th he was having surgery and May 2nd we were being admitted to the hospital for 6 months of intense chemo. He too had a large knot come up on his neck and it grew to the size of a basball in 2 weeks. He had never had any illnesses other than a cold or hang nail. The first 2 treatments put him in the hospital for a full month. We had hoped to get married before we were first admitted, but didn't want to delay treatments. The hospital was 2 1/2 hours from our hometown. When we got word that he might get to come home for a few days, I called the pastor and told him we needed his church and him to marry us. This was on a thursday. Friday I went home, Saturday I planned our wedding and by Sunday I was back at the hospital ready to pick him up and go back home when he ran a fever. Luckily Memorial Day 2007 we came home, next day got married in front of family and a few friends and then back to the hospital that following Thursday. He finished up all his treatments and by October 2nd 2007 he was announced Cancer Free! What better words to hear! We kept our original date for our wedding and celebrated life and our marriage and renewed our vows infront all our family and all our friends - 150 people to be exact - and what a celebration it was! We are coming up on 2 years soon and he's doing awesome! It was a rough six months when going through chemo but with each other, our loved ones and by the grace of God - we made it. And I know that you can too! We are very active with Relay for Life and believe that one day we will find a cure to this such terrible disease and hopefully no one will ever have to hear those dreaded words again of having Cancer.
  • lysdexia · 2 months ago
    By the grash of Bullshit? No, nobody fails as well as God.
    http://whywontgodhealamputees.com
    http://godisimaginary.com
  • Brooke Jaynes · 2 months ago
    The last thing people that have been through such horrible things as cancer or having a loved one endure such want to hear is that God, what many, many, many people turn to for something as simple as "hope", doesn't exist or he is horrible and not fair. That word "hope" keeps those who are losing everything holding on, keeping their fight up. You don't have to believe, no one does, it is a choice, but what this site is meant for is hope.. and getting people's minds off of the bad that has happened.

    Drew's cancer is to blame for your ignorance.
  • Louis Gray · 5 months ago
    The news is out, eh?

    I BlameDrewsCancer for our current economic uncertainties, the fact the A's are incapable of putting together a win streak... retroactively why I had no social life in high school... why I never worked at a company that went IPO... why my browser tends to lock up 3-4 times a day... why my kid has a fever and why bad things happen to good people.

    No wait - that's exactly what we have here. Bad thing. Awesome guy. I know we've talked a lot about this for a month or so, and I already know you're going to pound this baby into submission. We'll help you kill it.

    You can #BlameDrewsCancer but not #BlameDrewsAttitude.
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    Dude, the A's should blame their horrible uniform color. Ack!

    Keep me updated on the little one, I had a hard time falling asleep last night thinking about her.

    Thank you Louis.
  • Schmeesy · 5 months ago
    Okay, I'll admit that I've been away from the internets for a while. I could go into all of the reasons why, but clearly I just need to #blamedrewscancer. Seriously, I had NO IDEA this had happened! I started seeing the hashtags on friends tweets and Facebook stati and wondered if it could be you. I brushed it off thinking, Surely, I would have seen it somewhere before now if it were someone as public as Drew. Point being, I saw the hashtags. Your plan is working. People are discussing cancer. My friends are discussing cancer. The scariness is gone and they are with you in this fight, Drew. They are discussing the cancer that you are beating, Drew! WE are in this with you. Thanks for your willingness to be so transparent. Thanks for being an educator, a fighter, a winner, a guy willing to share his life, with its ups and its downs, with the rest of us. Thanks, especially, for doing something I haven't had the courage to do for the last month... have this lump in my neck checked out. Of course, I'm hoping it's simply a small issue with my thyroid or salivary gland. If it's not?? I'm relying on your example. Keep it up, Drew!
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Thank you so so much for the support. Go get checked out. I'm here for you any time. 415 238 8428

    <3
  • Heather · 5 months ago
    Hey man, I can relate. When I was 18 I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. Naturally, I named it Marla. It really helps to take the light hearted approach that you have, trust me. I came to think of my tumor (about the size of a basketball when it was finally removed) as a pet. Like you I blamed everything on it and often made jokes. Its been about three years since I got the clear and life does get back to normal. I guess my whole point of commenting is to let you know that you are not alone. If you ever need the ear of someone who has been through something quite similar to your situation, you are welcome to e-mail me at hljames@mai.usi.edu . I think you have a wonderful attitude and I wish you all the best.
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    GO YOU!!!!!

    You'll be hearing from me soon.

    <3
  • Hutch Carpenter · 5 months ago
    Drew - amazing post, and your philosophy is admirable. I'm rooting for you. You're gonna lick this.
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    Im not sure if licking cancer is a good idea Hutch.

    <3 thanks for the support!
  • heathergold · 5 months ago
    Drew! I feel these together: Oh noes! + You rock!

    The attitude is the thing you actually have control over and it is amazing that you are on top of that so quickly. Like so many others are telling you, I too know someone with cancer.. a few kinds actually and she's outlived and thrived past it multiple times. She's well into her 80s now and still has a phenomenal attitude.

    I love that you're going to game it / play with it. When I started standup in the 80s I would ask the audience for any problem in their lives (including hangnails) and explain how It's Reagan's Fault.

    But now I will #BlameDrewsCancer.

    love and caring to you,
    heather
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    Wow, I would be one ugly 80 year old. But now I guess that's ok. Funny how you never really think about it until something not so great happens.

    You're awesome and I've known it for a long time.

    <3 <3 <3

    Freakin' Reagan.
  • Robert Scoble · 5 months ago
    You have me crying. You are the best! I will blame everything on your cancer!
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    Awww, don't cry Robert, I'm dandy :)

    Just be happy we don't have to blame you for everything now!!!!
  • erong · 5 months ago
    Keeping a positive outlook is the surest way to beat this thing.

    You have a large, and very odd, network of folks here and ready to support you!
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    Thank you 100x over. It really does make all the difference.
  • alyson · 4 months ago
    Hey Drew,

    My 15 year old son Jared is a 1 year survivor of Hodgkin's stage 3 tomorrow!! He kicked cancer's sorry ass and went on to get his black belt in karate, finish his freshman year of high school with a 3.5 gpa and join a youth group to help other kids with cancer. Thank goodness I can now blame all my stress, weight gain, back trouble and crankiness on your cancer!!! Feel good my friend and keep up the positive thoughts.

    much love,
    Jared's mom

    ps you can check out Jared's remission dance at
    www.shannonlottphotography.com/fountain/
  • drewolanoff · 4 months ago
    Wooohooo!!! Go Jared!!!!

    That's one butt kicker for sure. Sweet remission!@#!@#!@#!@#

    <3 tell him to keep up the great work.
  • Salsagrl55 · 4 months ago
    Hey Drew you have a frnd if u need one ; )

    Go Drew, beat that cancer!
  • Ethan Zohn · 4 months ago
    chemOlanoff,

    Wow, we are living parallel cancer lives. This is great, it's like I just read my own bio, however, I have a rare form Hodgkins called CD20 Positive Hodgkins Lymphoma. Only 5% have it. Don't be jealous. ChemHO, sleepless nights, Zofran, bald EVERYWHERE...I imagine we are experiencing this "fun-sponge-of-life" in similar ways. Thanks for your sense of humor and positive attitude toward this cancer crap. More importantly, you are educating and inspiring others along the way. That's what really matters. We will both crush this out our system and be able to give cancer a big fat FU. - Ethan Z
  • drewolanoff · 4 months ago
    Ethan,

    You're rare and in charge brutha. We should talk. Thank you for being as public as you are about what you're going through. It's not an easy thing, but who said life was easy? That would be boring :)

    Gimme a buzz sometime - 415-238-8428. Don't know where you're based these days, but I'm in Philly.

    chemOlanoff...i'd say I like that nickname, but chemo is my bitch. Which would translate to myBitchOlanoff...which my dad might not like (also a cancer battler and survivor) ;)

    Hang in there and keep kickin' ass.
  • Cathy Doheny · 4 months ago
    Thank you for bringing greater awareness to lymphomas and to providing a venue for increased dialogue. My husband is a lymphoma survivor, as well, so we can definitely relate to what you are enduring.

    I am the National Blood Cancers Examiner for examiner.com and have just published an article on this. You may read it at:
    http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-15792-Blood-...

    All the best for a speedy recovery from treatment!
  • Wendy Belcher · 4 months ago
    Drew, I was a bit hesitant to post as I'm a pretty boring Kansas girl who isn't into taking a lot of chances in life, BUT your site has me laughing. And now is a good time! My surgery to confirm the type of my Hodgkin's occurred on May 20, 2009, so we have more than one thing in common. I have Stage II favorable prognosis nodular sclerosing Hodgkin's. One chemo treatment down, hair already falling out, mouth sores, etc etc. We are very different, yet very much alike in this disease we didn't ask for. And I agree, bone marrow biopsy, owwwww! I am a family doctor in a small town and wow, am I getting a dose of things I didn't understand. Just wanted to say that God and attitude can get us through anything! Good luck with your treatments and I'll be watching to see what company donates dollar for each blame.
  • drewolanoff · 4 months ago
    I'm so glad you commented. Boring? BAH!

    If you need anything at all, please let me know.
  • spydergrrl · 5 months ago
    Hi Drew

    Your attitude is amazing and infectious. So many of us have had their lives touched by cancer among family and friends, it's incredibly cathartic to think that if enough people get mad, cancer won't have a chance.

    I've blogged about it, have Tweeted on it, encourage friends and even people at work to #blamedrewscancer... hope that as many people as possible will take part.

    Cancer doesn't stand a chance....
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Thank you.
  • Tanya · 5 months ago
    I freakin' ADORE the attitude you're taking with your illness. My cousin was diagnosed with Hodgkins when he was 19 - kicked it's ass and it hasn't been back. I've little doubt you'll do the same.

    I'd love to do a comic about #blamedrewscancer over at http://betapwned.com - would that be okay with you?
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Thank you for the kind words and support Tanya.

    I would be honored :)
  • Tom Pascal · 5 months ago
    Hey man,
    I just had to write you after a friend linked to your site from facebook. I have cerebral palsy, and though I know its NOTHING compared to what you face, it makes me feel very small and ( appropriately) humbled to know there are those who can come to terms with something way more serious a lot better than I have with my CP, even with it being a lifelong thing I've had for 19 years. I have so much to learn from you man. Thank you for sharing your wisdom brother :)
    Fight on.
    Tom
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Tom you're not small, thats for sure.

    You kick ass every day, I've only had to kick ass for about a week so far. Keep it up.

    I'm the one learning.

    _drew
  • bhanahan · 5 months ago
    It's amazing how upset I got reading this about someone I've never met in real life. I'm sure there's nothing I can say that hasn't been said or thought, but as I cancer survivor myself, just know that I feel ya. And I'll be thinking about you. A lot. You attitude is awesome, and that's what you need to hang on to. So yea, fuck cancer. And also, I'm thirsty. I #blamedrewscancer.
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Thank you. :) Congrats on kicking cancers ass. You're an inspiration and it's awesome to have your support!
  • Bianca · 5 months ago
    hey Drew -

    You have a lot of us at the Lance Armstrong Foundation blaming your cancer for our problems. Let us know if you need anything.

    We're thinking about you, kick cancer's ass!
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Thanks Bianca!

    You do amazing work, thank you for all that you do. I will be in touch for sure.
  • PurpleCar · 5 months ago
    GO Drew! You keep laughing...

    Good luck, and I'll be rooting for you!
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Thank ya much, its really helping :)
  • Molly E. Holzschlag · 5 months ago
    Drew, you are awesome. Hodgkins is serious, I've held two people in my life as they passed from it. I always wish they'd have had your attitude. It's not so much a "fight" as it is a realization that we are all fragile. I love your entire #blamedrewscancer idea and I think you have exactly the right frame of mind to be a thriver. Fuck surviving, you are living and that is all that counts.

    You need a friend, I'm here, always.

    xo/m
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Yep. I'm learning to live every day like its my last....cancer or not.

    People are too awesome to not say i love you to every single day.

    So thank you.

    :)
  • Brian · 5 months ago
    When you get to LA LA land, what are the chances of hangin' out at Disneyland? As you know, I'm a card-holding junkie.

    I have no idea if anything can stimulate/aggravate what you've got, or what your doctor's orders are, or even if Disneyland is your cup of tea.

    But if for any reason you won't go to Disneyland, I #BlameDrewsCancer!
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Heck yeah man, my mom wants to go to Disneyworld so I might as well hit both!!! :)
  • stevewoolf · 5 months ago
    Wow, life throws some curveballs, don't it? My Dad has had cancer twice and kicked its ass; getting diagnosed with it definitely is not what it used to be. It sucks that you have to deal with this right now when you're working on so much else in your life, but I have total confidence that with your motivation and attitude, you will come through this just fine. If you need anything, you know where to shout, brother. :)
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    Thanks Steve. Hope to be visiting LA LA soon :)

    Your dad is my hero.
  • Fashionablyl8 · 5 months ago
    I love your optimism! Be sure to check this out:

    http://www.watchtower.org/e/200701/article_03.htm
  • Daniel Brusilovsky · 5 months ago
    Our thoughts and wishes are with you...
  • Karen Hartline · 5 months ago
    You rock my world! Way to be as aggressive as the cancer. Kick it, dude. ;) And now I can #BlameDrewsCancer for EVERYTHING! ::hugs::
  • ryankuder · 5 months ago
    Holy shit. Didn't see that coming. I just signed up to run my fourth marathon--the Royal Victoria in October--for Team In Training and the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. Through the team, I've met plenty of people who have kicked cancer's ass. The treatments they've got now are amazing. In the past, I've ran for our team's honorees. But this year, Drew, I'm running for you. I'm in for 26.2 miles to help you kick this things ass. I'm raising $5,000 and I'm going to #blamedrewscancer for having to take ice baths. Fight on.
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Wow Ryan. Thank you so much for all that you've done, and for all that you do. Meeting you was seriously a highlight for me in SF.

    Thank you a million times over.
  • Pam Archer · 5 months ago
    Drew,

    Your positive attitude will win!

    If you are on facebook, befriend Petra Kolber. Write her a message with your request and tell her I sent you.

    She is a famous fitness guru. She had, I repeat HAD, Hodgkins Lymphoma. The was so positive throughout her treatments, and continued teaching and her internatinal travel during that time.

    She is an amazine specimen of fit and healthy today...and you will be too!
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    Thank you for the support. I totally will! And I totally need to get into better shape. My geekly figure needs help ;)
  • geechee_girl · 5 months ago
    I hate this for you. Kick its ass like it's the bully from grade school you get to run into years later after you get your black belt ninja skills.
  • Aaron Brazell · 5 months ago
    Dude. So sorry. You're gonna beat this though... you're a fighter, not a lover.
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    That's NOT what she said.

    ;) Thanks bro.
  • patrickj · 5 months ago
    Hey Drew - I don't know you or your writing from anytime before this post. It's a great post and your attitude is spot-on and you will kick this 'thing' 's arse. I have what you have - different flavor, but same overall 'thing' - diagnosed over two years ago.

    I've struggled at times with keeping the right attitude about all of it - and I can tell you, this post is fantastic to see, I'll bookmark it for sure, for any days where my attitude needs bucking up.

    You might not be able to send it back, but I believe you're going to send it packing ...
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Keep up the good work. If you ever want to talk, call me at 415 238 8428. I'm here. Always. :)
  • Joe Boughner · 5 months ago
    Drew,

    I don't know you but I want to. This is a brilliant, brilliant idea and a wonderful way to turn shitty news into something great. Good on you for being so positive. Hang in there and I will blame your cancer for everything and anything I can.
  • MDH · 5 months ago
    Fellow HL survivor just chiming-in - kick it's ass - enjoy the absurdity of ABVD, it's what you make it.

    No worries - you can do it! I went through the same ride but Stage-4 last year.
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    w00t! Good job kicking its ass.

    Thank you so much for the support.
  • Vincenzo · 5 months ago
    Wow. I was not expecting this story when I clicked to read. Way to keep that positive attitude. I like your take on it. We'll be pulling for you.
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    Its so much appreciated. More than I can say. Being a sharer, it was crappy not being able to say anything.
  • JolieODell · 5 months ago
    Who or what shall we blame when your cancer is gone?

    Kick its ass, Drew.

    *fierce hugs*

    As much as I want somethin' to blame, I want you to get better soon. You'll be in my thoughts. Much love.
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    Good question. When its gone, we can um. Blame EVERYONE!

    Thanks Jolie <3
  • stevegarfield · 5 months ago
    Sending good thoughts your way, which is Philly, right?
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    Yeppers. Hopefully I'll be able to go Philly > LA when I'm feeling up to it.
  • geekgiant · 5 months ago
    Drew… I am stunned and saddened to hear about this. I wish you nothing but the best in your journey. From the time we have spent together, I know you're a strong dude, so get ready to kick cancer's ass.
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    You're right...it's definitely a Journey. The people around me refuse to let me lose. Support is the best medicine ever. And this is why I love the internet, because I can connect with everyone that I care about.
  • jherskowitz · 5 months ago
    Cancer doesn't stand a chance. I, for one, will be blaming your cancer for most things in the future. Stay strong, as always.
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    Thank you Jason. And I miss you dude. See you soon?
  • jherskowitz · 5 months ago
    For sure. Let me know if/when you are in NYC. I've been spending a fair amount of time up there lately.
  • turoczy · 5 months ago
    So sorry to hear this. But if anyone can kick cancer's ass you can. Hang in there.
  • drew olanoff · 5 months ago
    Thanks bro. I'm definitely aware that I could have things 110% worse. I'll make some good out of it.
  • Renee J. Ross · 5 months ago
    I like the way you are approaching this. A positive attitude is key with this type of thing. Tweeted using your hashtag.
  • amylola · 5 months ago
    Drew, you're awesome. An inspiration. Thank you.

    Sending 100% cancer-beating full-remission positive mojo your way!
  • bshellyg · 5 months ago
    Drew,
    Thank you for posting and letting the online community of Drew supporters and fans send their positive vibes your way. I'm a teacher and this summer I'll tell my students to blame Drew's cancer.
    Keep on rocking Drew!
  • ocred99 aka gabrielle · 5 months ago
    i am with you and wish you the best, i love the idea of BlameDrewsCancer - empowering for you i hope and so many others. perspective is everything.

    feel the love from cali
  • Lin · 5 months ago
    You are a good man for thinking beyond your cancer and yourself... not easy, I know. Drew, you're strong. I have every confidence that you will come out of this better than ever (and I'm saying this from an eight years cancer free stand).

    Now go beat that SOB up!
  • Lin · 5 months ago
    Oh, and another thing. I just spilled my coffee...and I will BlameDrewsCancer.
  • sarahintampa · 5 months ago
    We've never met, but I've followed your content online for years. I'm so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you.
  • Robert Kenney · 5 months ago
    Great attitude and a positive post. All the best.
  • PaulRjMuller · 5 months ago
    Wow drew, thats a fantastic attitude. I just had a scare myself, but didn't handle it nearly as well as you handled your test results.

    I hated keeping quiet about my issue while it was still being looked at so i feel for you

    Stay strong man I know you can beat this and pull a funny while your at it.
  • Gilliebee · 5 months ago
    Drew, we may not be acquainted yet, but I follow you because you take me down unexpected paths to remarkable places. This is one of those times.

    Ya know, I didn't get near enough work done today.

    I #BlameDrewsCancer.

    Take care. I'll be following...
  • LivePaola · 5 months ago
    All the best Drew.
  • Matik72 · 5 months ago
    Yo buddy, you know that I got your back. I will call you this evening. Remember that I sleep badly so if you need to yak at someone in the middle of the night. Off to the doc myself right now.
  • teresa_schmidt · 5 months ago
    I didn't sleep last night. Now I know why. #BlameDrewsCancer is going on twitter right now!

    I don't know you but I'll be following you on this journey, in case that helps any.
  • LisaHoover · 5 months ago
    I wish I could come up with something clever, pithy, or cheery to say but I am completely at a loss for words. I'm so sorry about this, but your attitude is amazing and I know you will beat it. (Guess I had a few words in me...)
  • NatePagel · 5 months ago
    DREW! Found out from Mona Nomura's post. Great attitude and thinking here. I will spread this meme and blame your cancer, while it stops it's spread and goes away. Jes like dat.
  • vo0 · 5 months ago
    my uncle had hodgkins and was cured with treatment. The only difference now is that he has to get nitrite and nitrate free ham, bacon, etc.
  • jungleg · 5 months ago
    I know all the love you're getting from the community will have a positive impact. We're all behind you, 100%, sending good energy. Positive, positive, positive... x1E24
  • Josh · 5 months ago
    A close friend of mine just beat Hodgkins, keep your hope up and your resolve strong. I'll share with you what I shared with him: "feel free to kick it's ass".
  • timbrauhn · 5 months ago
    Right on, dog. Keep up the good work.
  • timbrauhn · 5 months ago
    Right on, dog. Keep up the good work.
  • ocean363 · 5 months ago
    DREW!!
    So very sorry to hear about this. But know you will TOTALLY kick cancer's ass!! I am going to start to blameDrewsCancer for everything to help out any way I can :) You take care of you and keep that positive attitude and that cancer is so history! Big Hugs we miss you here !!
  • Lauri Morris · 5 months ago
    xoxoxoxooxooooooooooooooooo Sorry to hear about this. I will be thinking about you. Take care. You are a great guy... I know you will beat this.

    - Lauri
  • Chel aka chelpixie · 5 months ago
    Drew, Drew,

    You shall kick cancer's ass to the curb and then pound it some more.

    I blame my horrific 2009 allergies on Drew's Cancer.

    Louis said it perfectly: Bad thing. Awesome guy.

    *hug* You can do this, we're behind you all the way.

    xo
  • jeffisageek · 5 months ago
    hey drew...been following you forever and have always enjoyed your content...was even a guest on the readburner show :) my thoughts are with you and I know you will beat this thing.
  • Ryan Block · 5 months ago
    We've all got your back, man. Kick its ass.
  • jennyrisch · 5 months ago
    found you through twitter ... Im a survivor - you are in my prayers and Ill be blaming your cancer on twitter from here on out !!!
  • jennyrisch · 5 months ago
    Drew -foudn you on twitter - Im a survivor - you are in my prayers - way to fight cancer with cancer !
  • Jesse Stay · 5 months ago
    Drew this hits near and dear to my heart, as I have had numerous family members with cancer. I blame Drew's cancer on all of that. However with your positive attitude we'll get through this together. Please let me know how I can help. I'm here for you like everyone else here.
  • Molly · 5 months ago
    Wow..sorry man. Whatever you need for support- you have it in your community. Don't ever worry about straining us or pressuring us or making us feel bad- we are here for you.
  • Chad Kerychuk · 5 months ago
    Drew: Bounced over from Kris Krug's Facebook post. Your battle strategy is amazing! It is that kind of positive thinking that makes you a champion! I've had friends go through this experience too. Keep it up and we'll all help you through this!
  • Teresadf · 5 months ago
    I'm sorry to hear that you have cancer. I have no doubt it really sucks, but at least you have a positive attitude! I think laughter is the best medicine for everything, well, except that rash that won't go away. I think you will beat that damn cancer with a hockey stick! I will proudly blame all things bad on your cancer, but I still hold @oprah accountable for some of the blame for twitter's screw ups. :)

    Bestest of luck to you!
  • Jay Grandin · 5 months ago
    I'm inspired by your courage and sense of humour.
  • Ms. Mama · 5 months ago
    Welcome to the Cancer Factory. Without you, or people like you, then it would cease to exist. All the technology you speak of is interesting too. A lot of the chemo drugs were developed back in the middle of the twentieth century.

    By the way, I blamed my daughter's leukemia on your cancer. Even though you were diagnosed after she was. It could still work.

    www.isarose.wordpress.com
  • Laura · 5 months ago
    A friend of my mother just has been battling breast cancer (and had a mastectomy last week). Whenever anything bad happened - you know, she dropped something, her computer locked up, etc - she would blame the cancer. :) Her philosophy? Cancer sucks! But I'm gonna kick its ass!

    I am glad you have adopted a similar philosophy. :) I will be praying for you.
  • sharonbetts · 5 months ago
    You will come out of this period - there is so much in the positive attitude and the support groups - you have both in spades!
  • promisesandlies · 5 months ago
    I stumbled onto your story via Twitter, and I wanted to wish you the best.

    My mother was diagnosed with non-Hodgkins lymphoma the day after Christmas last year. Over six months of chemotherapy, ups and downs, hair and weight loss, and more scans and blood tests than I can count, it's been an adventure - but it's over. She's just about better. And with all they know about lymphoma, you'll get past it. You can't let cancer win, and from what I can tell, you don't plan on letting it any time soon.

    Kick ass and take names. :)
  • John E. Bredehoft (Empoprises) · 5 months ago
    I was looking at my Facebook friend feed and noticed that Jesse Stay was using the #blamedrewscancer hashtag, which I hadn't heard about before. I then found the website and this post. Best of luck, I hope the 90% statistic holds true, and anyone or thing that crosses me will get tweeted!
  • Rex Casteel · 5 months ago
    You're a hero with this one (channeling Joseph Campbell on the diff between hero and celebrity).

    Thanks for the inspiration and modeling!

    - R
  • DotEd · 5 months ago
    Let's blame some sub par east coast sushi on your cancer soon.

    I can haz GOGII job too? Ha! I'll be in LA later in June - we can have lunch on both coasts if our schedules match up and you're working there then, too.

    I've watched you do some pretty amazing things over the years. I don't think anything is going to slow you down. You probably just got additional motiviation - which, I don't really think you needed!

    Here's to future triumph, Drew.
  • brianwatkins · 5 months ago
    Drew I'm really sorry to hear that. Really impressed with your attitude. Wish you the best.
  • shiny · 5 months ago
    Wow -- quite a bit of shocking news. Sorry to hear it.

    My dad is actually in the middle of chemo for his non-Hodgkins lymphoma -- which, according to the latest PET scans, is doing quite a job of eradicating it. Chemo can be scary stuff -- but you've shown me before that you can kick this shit to the curb. I believe in you.

    Hey - maybe we can get you and my dad in a room -- have the Hodgkins and non-Hodgkins battle each other out to extinction! What do you say? :)
  • Rick Rey · 5 months ago
    I #BlameDrewsCancer for this dreary/rainy day we're having in LA! Truth is, I was really shocked to hear this news today. It's one of those things you NEVER expect to hear about your friends. You are one of the most upbeat, positive people I know, and there's no way in hell you won't beat this. It was great seeing you in Austin for SXSW and I'm looking forward to seeing more of you in LA. :)
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Darn tootin bro. LA is in my sights. I'll be there soon to visit at the very least.
  • Anne · 5 months ago
    Totally found posts for/about you on Twitter. I'm with Heather. I'm actually (as of this coming July 24th) a 31 year survivor of ovarian cancer and a 22 year survivor of thyroid cancer. The disease is a beast, but it doesn't have to own us. I'm sending you as many positive thoughts/prayers/wishes as I can. Stay strong...get it done!
  • tracy · 5 months ago
    Hey there. I was diagnosed with uterine cancer in 2006 at the age of 28 and just finished treatment for thyroid cancer 3 weeks ago at 31. I wouldn't trade any of it for the world. I've learned more, loved more and lived more since it all happened. Hang in there. Cancer doesn't have us...I love it
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    :) That's awesome. You whooped up on it, you're so my hero.
  • nori0411 · 2 months ago
    My sister in law was diagnosed with uterine cancer last fall. She has had a rough life as it is, she has a touch of down's syndrome and has diabetes also. Life is not normal to begin with, now this. She had a hysterectomy, went through her chemo then radiation, then for a few months she was doing great, no cancer... we thought. She had really horrible stomach pains and now it is back, with a vengence. Apparently is has been growing - why the fuck haven't they seen this?!? We just don't understand. She is 38 and will never get married, have her own family - and now has to deal with shitty cards that fate/god/whoever dealt to her. We are staying positive for her, we have to. It is great reading this, we could blamedrewscancer and blamedawnscancer... there is hope and know that being positive is the what to do it.
    thanks ;)
  • MiikoMentz · 5 months ago
    I love your spirit! You have already won half the battle with your kick-ass attitude, which will help you beat it.

    Big hugs to you Drew.
    xoxo
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    xoxoxoxo back at ya!
  • Wayne Sutton · 5 months ago
    Hang in there man! Good luck and congrats on the new job. Well wishes
  • davethorvald · 5 months ago
    The tea leaves see you kickin Cancer's ass on a daily basis - take it slow and easy man.
  • Jody Schoger · 5 months ago
    I actually love cancer discussions, since so many of us have had, currently or will have cancer. But Drew, your attitude is awesome. I haven't ever chuckled while reading about someone's diagnosis -- but did with yours. Keep hold of that optimism and never forget that you will beat this.

    PS. I #BlameDrewsCancer for the fact that I never rached 5'1."
  • Nalin · 5 months ago
    You WILL beat this man. We all wish you the best.
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Thank you so much. :)
  • RexDixon · 5 months ago
    #BlameDrewsCancer - great idea to take lemons and make some fantastic @drew Lemonade! Keep strong man!
  • hardaway · 5 months ago
    Well, here's what I know about cancer. You have the "good" kind. Thirty-five years ago, my husband had melanoma. They said "cancer," and I freaked out. He died at age 75.

    Thirteen years ago, my daughter had a brain tumor, and my-husband-the-doctor found out what kind it was and said "well, if you have to have one, this is the best kind." She's now a happy mom.

    Through my long life, I have come to see that all cancer is not alike.
    Many people have lymphoma and live out their entire natural lives; I know a few old men who have been in remission for forty years. Had lunch with a guy on Mother's Day who is one of them:-)

    So don't be scared. Go through the treatment and go on with your life. You will be fine. Take it from Pollyanna:-) And you are right. Cancer does not, and should not have you.

    Much love. And thanks for not telling me you are moving to L.A.
  • lauraglu · 5 months ago
    I blame spam on your cancer. I look forward to when they both disappear!

    Keep up the attitude Drew, and let us all know how you are doing.
  • Gingerken · 5 months ago
    Drew, you have the right attitude going into this. Hang tough and reach out to friends if need be. Cancer is all around us in so many varieties. But these days we know people living with cancer, yet it doesn't have them.

    I have a young friend who is about to have a stem cell transplant, 6/8 to be exact, after 2 go arounds with AML, (leukemia, which is a blood cancer.) Her attitude and her sense of humor have been a huge factor in helping her get through the rough spots up until now. She is my hero, and I know you will be another one.
  • Dave Delaney · 5 months ago
    Take good care of yourself man. Cancer sucks, but I know you'll kick the crap out of it.

    I have strep throat at the moment, I know it pales in comparison. I'm thinking it has something to do with you though, so I'm going to go ahead and #blamedrewscancer!

    Cheers.
    D
  • whitneyhoffman · 5 months ago
    Damn.

    I am so sorry to hear it, and anything we can do to help- let me know!!!! NIH trials, whatever you need!

    I'll even knit you funky hats if you want.

    *hugs*

    Whit
  • quiddie · 5 months ago
    Stay tough, Drew! :D
  • karllong · 5 months ago
    I'm so sorry to hear this news Drew and am in awe of your strength and attitude. I saw this film recently called The Beautiful Truth about alternative cancer cures, I don't know what works and what doesn't but thought I would pass it along: http://www.netflix.com/Movie/The_Beautiful_Trut...

    Thanks for sharing this stuff, I'm sure you will help a lot of people.
  • madeleine · 5 months ago
    hi drew!

    i love what you're doing. and hodgkins is a bitch, but it can be kicked, i had it 10 years ago. i emailed you, in case you ever want to talk to a stage 3 survivor. xo
  • Pam Schmid · 5 months ago
    My AC broke today in 90 something degree heat... it's that stupid cancer's fault!
  • Anne Morello · 5 months ago
    Hey Drew,

    You're incredible, inspiring, brave and funny.

    I burnt my wrist while cooking chicken and setting off the smoke alarm which alerted my very cute neighbor of the fact that I am a terrible cook. I #BlameDrewsCancer.
  • Colleen Pence · 5 months ago
    Drew, you've got the best attitude possible. I was diagnosed with colon cancer when I was 26. Immediately I armed myself with knowledge about my disease. I also employed my ridiculous sense of humor and it, along with the wonderful support of family and friends, got me through what would have otherwise been dark days.

    Eleven years after my diagnosis I'm doing great save for the eyelash that just poked me in the eye and for that I #blamedrewscancer.
  • Allie · 5 months ago
    I seriously admire your positivity and strength. And I hope you are feeling okay after your first treatment.

    Rooting for you...will certainly be back to keep tabs on your progress! Feel free to ping if you need to vent. We may have never met, but I get the feeling we wouldn't be strangers...
  • Marie · 5 months ago
    Drew - would love to meet you some day. My husband beat cancer 20 years ago and your sense of humor about it reminds me of him, so I think you're going to be fine! He often cracks jokes about cancer (he had testicular cancer- also around 90% cure rate) and says cancer saved him from getting kicked out of college for partying too much. People often get uncomfortable when he jokes about it but if you don't laugh about it, then what are you going to do? Cry all day? F$#@ that!

    Move to LA and go to a clinic and get some really good weed. You've earned it!
  • zadi · 5 months ago
    Woah! Not sure how I missed this. Now I know why it rained in LA today, why the job market sucks and why Paris Hilton won't go away. It's your freakin' cancer -- beat that sucker!

    Seriously, you have a legion of supporters. Let us know if there is anything we can do. We have your back Drew. Sending healing vibes your way~~~> love. <3.
  • charlieanzman · 5 months ago
    Drew - I truly believe attitude helps. Yours is totally incredible here. Same from me. Ever back in PA ... stop in! E-mail, call, whatever. Just found out and I'm stunned. You WILL win ... after all, you've got the whole Internet rootin' !!
  • prestontaylor · 5 months ago
    Dear Cancer,

    Apparently you didn't get the memo that we don't want your ass hanging around here, Drew's body, that is. Now, I must inform you that I have been recruited by your HOST, Drew, like many other folks, to focus all of my anger, frustrations, and detestation towards ----> you! That's some scary shit, hunh? You bet your destructive ass it is, and it only gets worse.

    Know this, I have alot of early childhood angst and young adult hatred. I will think of your name, "Lymphoma", and muster all the hate I have for you within my being. I will focus fire my angst upon you every time I get stuck in traffic, my PC shits the bed, my dog pees on the floor, my bedroom is too cold, my bedroom is too hot, my keys are lost, my plans don't work out, and basically anything else that pisses me off. I will do so with the wrath of ten thousand hydras, and you will know my name is Preston Taylor! I come in the name of friendship, fellowship, and hatred of piss-ant diseases that screw with people 's lives. It's time to consider going on permanent vacation. That's right! A one way ticket out of your host to the nether-region.

    Funny, that reminds me of a famous passage (Ezekiel 25:17) -->
    And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. And you will know I am the Lord when I lay my vengeance upon you."

    You remember the classic film Pulp Fiction, don't ya cancer? Then you surely remember the classic scene associated with this verse. You know the one I'm talking about. Where the worm that has screwed over Mr. Wallace is trying to talk his way out of it. Well, guess what Cancer....You're that worm <BANG>

    Now, gather up your shit and book it or Ill come back and write some more scary stuff. You DON'T WANT TO MESS WITH ME. Im Psycho.

    Disrespectfully NOT Yours,
    Preston Taylor
    Warrior Friend of Drew Olanoff

    Now it's 12:25 and I have missed my bed-time and my DVR shows for the night and I #BlameDrewsCancer
  • kdykes · 5 months ago
    Kick cancer's ass man!!
  • christinelu · 5 months ago
    omg drew, you have a strong soul and awesome outlook in light of a really messed up situation. :(

    you're in my thoughts and hell yea, i'm going to #blamedrewscancer the next time i'm on PMS. which is like, everyday.

    anything i can do to help you raise awareness, just let me know. you were such a nice person to get stuck on a 16 hour bus ride to vegas with.

    i'm going to follow along as you recover and lots of people will be better from your willingness to share the experience.
  • MarinaMartin · 5 months ago
    Wow, Drew. Your attitude is inspiring, and I just know you'll kick cancer's ass.

    "The Stranger" by Camus is nowhere near as good as "The Fall," and I was just about to blame the former's translator, but now I know it's your cancer's fault. Dammit, cancer.
  • BobGoyetche · 5 months ago
    I'd join the chorus telling you to kick cancer's ass, but you're already at it!

    Positive vibes to you from up north
  • mark · 5 months ago
    Drew - hope you get better soon. I lover your blamedrewscancer site. it is brilliant. I'll add you to my "friends who have cancer" prayer list. I'm sorry to say, it's getting longer.
  • Susan Heisel · 5 months ago
    Drew, I am lying here recovering from crappy side effects of chemo and radiation, and reading your #blamedrewscancer website is making me laugh my ass off. Can't thank you enough. Anyone who can come up with that idea will kick cancer's ass. More power to you.
  • Ben McConnell · 5 months ago
    The diagnosis sucks, but your openness and willingness to discuss your cancer with everyone is admirable healthy. It's great to see that you plan to own the illness instead of it owning you.

    You'll beat this and come out ahead!
  • Whitney · 5 months ago
    GO DREW! What a great attitude you have. I blame your cancer on mosquitoes being the state bird of South Carolina, the lack of a Dunkin' Donuts in my town, and a pile of 3 weeks' worth of dirty laundry. Will be checking in on your blog to follow your chemo travels.
  • Chris Brogan · 5 months ago
    Yeah, whatever.


    I just thought I'd say something different than the rest, because I think they've got me covered. You've been lovable since the very first PodCamp. I remember that party in the hotel as one of my favorite stories to tell. Ever.

    So yeah, piss off. Kick cancer in the balls on the way out the door or something.
  • Sarah Sloane · 5 months ago
    My partner beat down the lymphoma thing - he just cleared 5 years without a recurrance. You can totally do this - and I'll be using a lot of things to #blamedrewscancer on.

    -@sarahsloane
  • Nancy Best · 5 months ago
    You are awesome Drew! I also found a lump in my neck in June 2007 and was diagnosed with Stage 4 non-Hodgkin's lymphoma. After 6 months of chemo and Rituxan, I am in complete remission and intend to stay that way! You have the right attitude. Kick some cancer butt.
  • Paul · 5 months ago
    Hey Drew,

    Best of luck! What a great attitude and inspiration. I hope you make a "Blame Drews Cancer" graphic t-shirt. I'll buy the first one.

    Peace,

    Paul
  • Janet Fouts · 5 months ago
    Drew, laughter has a much better chance at kicking Cancer's ass than being down about it. Stay you and it just doesn't have a chance.
  • Kristine, Dallas, Texas · 5 months ago
    Amen and Amen~ I blamed your cancer for my f'd up love life~ so thanks for nothin'! ;-)
  • allyourfault · 5 months ago
    You are the best. I lost my husband 8 years ago, at age 39 to cancer, and I told him he would do anything for a foot rub. I just know that God needed him more than me. I know what you mean,optimism to keep you smiling. Funny thing is, my clutch just went, and my kids said it is becausr I can't drive a standard, now I know it is because of Drew's cancer! I am going to call my kids right now, and then Twitter that I am blaming Drews cancer for my clutch going! I knew I could drive that silly car!
  • Lauren · 5 months ago
    The only thing more admirable than your use of social media is your inspirational courage. Yours is a story I will be following closely. I wish you every success with your treatments.

    -Lauren (@beebow)
  • Jackk · 5 months ago
    Drew,
    Same thing happened to me. Last August I felt great and had a ultra small pea size lump in my neck. I'm anal as hell about my body and sure enough it was non-Hodgkins Lymphoma. I was staged at stage 3 no marrow involvement. Anyway, it happened so fast I took it as a big joked. I blamed everything on cancer as a joke and even got out of some things i hated in life because of cancer! hehe Its all about state of mind. Just keep it light and go about your life as it were normal. I worked through my treatment (6 months) and just told my cancer to fuck off. My last treatment was in Feb and I'm now cancer free. Your young (like me) and the prognosis for your type of cancer is great! Great cancer to have (if you do get cancer) and you will kick its ass. No problem. Hang in there and just look at it as something you can put down on your resume ;)

    You will be fine...............at ASCO conference they said hodgkins and non Hodgkins will be cured in 5-10 years due to advanced targeted new drugs coming online.
  • pdxdog · 5 months ago
    Drew,
    I don't know you and think your idea of blaming your cancer is brilliant!

    I am what's called a N1 (no one else) in my cancer survival. I believe in miracles. I had 23 lymph nodes involved in my breast cancer, very low survival rate. I am alive 11 years later with no recurrence. Attitude counts for a lot along with a fantastic medical team.

    When I got the news, I threw a garden party. I wanted to fill my garden with good vibes, told everyone the situation to reduce fear, and went on a 1 year treatment journey with my Team of friends and family.

    I think you have a great cancer book with your blame Drew's cancer or at least a great way for other people to add humor and fun to a nightmare.

    I'd love to follow your story and support you anyway I can.

    Andrea
  • Giannii · 5 months ago
    I've kicked cancers ass once and I know fo sho you can kicks its ass! Next time your in SF BEER! or get a tattoo or something. =P #blamedrewscancer (415) 971-4920
  • kinsey · 5 months ago
    you're amazing
  • Joe Dawson · 5 months ago
    Drew

    I wish I had your positive outlook, you are an inspiration and you have already beaten this fella. Love all the way from London. If you're over this way would love to hook up and get some tattoo ideas man!!

    Joe
  • Nikolay Kolev · 5 months ago
    I can relate, too. You'll beat it, Drew! Good luck! I'll #BlameDrewsCancer - I promise!
  • jmbehr · 5 months ago
    Drew,
    With your attitude you will surely beat this thing. I found a lump on my neck last summer that turned out to be thyroid cancer. After 2 surgeries & radiation, I am better than ever. Better, because the cancer gave me a swift kick in the rear to remind me to live my life while I had the chance. Truly a blessing! I am thankful that my cancer was quite curable as it sounds like yours is, as well. I will keep you in my prayers and look forward to hearing of your complete recovery!
    Jeanne
    P.S. I am rooting for the Penguins to win the Stanley Cup, if they don't, I will, of course ... #BlameDrewsCancer!!
  • Keith Levy · 5 months ago
    Oh my god you are just laughing cancer's ass out of the building right now! This is awesome. FUCK CANCER.
  • redbydesign · 5 months ago
    Aha, a kindred spirit. My husband was diagnosed with stage IV gastric cancer in March. Much less happy prognosis, than yours, more like exactly the opposite. We're good at the underdog game though and thus far he improves every day.

    What I like most is talking about cancer. Most people don't and aren't comfortable with it. My dear hubby and I are like you He will win too. But even medicine has it limits. They offered him chemo but it would only give him an extra two months. No brainer risking heart, liver and kidney failure, being a strapping healthy guy those numbers were not worth it. So he is currently defying the odds already. Took radiation, but now is on alternative therapies and improving daily. So in honor of your quest and his, he would like to blame the burnt out turn signals on his car on your cancer to day-especially since they replaced the relay twice and they still don't work, tomorrow you can blame something on his. He told the mechanic it was probably because he was radiant. You know like the pig in charlotte's web.

    Alice (I don't know why my twitter name ended up here, but hey)
  • John · 5 months ago
    Attitude goes a long way in fighting cancer. Yours rocks. Fight hard. And never let cancer catch you NOT being a smartass.
  • Dave Peck · 5 months ago
    Okay..Im not the type to get sappy nor do I think your the type to want that from a guy like me. So look, leverage this thing to get more girls. Based on your past record, I don't think it will be an issue. ;)
  • Pam Nash · 5 months ago
    Hey Drew - you ROCK! Saw about you on Twitter, can I blame our bum Prime Minister in the UK on your cancer? Course I can!!

    You're one cool dude - beat the 'C'!!
  • Liz Gebhardt · 5 months ago
    My mom beat breast cancer 30 years ago. You go Drew!
  • Tim Shey · 5 months ago
    Hey Drew, somehow I was the last to hear but I'm so glad to hear you so positive and see the outpouring of love. You're a special guy and you're totally kicking Drew's Cancer's ass.

    Let me know if there's anything I can do -- I have a close friend and colleague who beat Hodgkin's lymphoma and he tapped into an incredible community of support and amazing doctors, and these days (seven years cancer-free) he's about to race his first triathlon. I'd love to introduce you two.

    We're thinking of you and just a short ride away here in NY if you need anything -- and I'll be blaming your cancer for everything.

    - tim
  • vocono · 5 months ago
    you definitely stay in this fight with us Drew. I have 4th stage gall bladder cancer. They gave me 2mo. to live 4yrs.ago. Do it up drew.Every day.whatever it takes.be good to you. Ive tried everything,and im still tryin every day,every minute.
  • sfe · 5 months ago
    Great attitude. Are you on ABVD protocol? I was 2A a couple of years ago...nodular sclerosing (assuming the same from the neck...) and had half your dose plus 20 dates with a big radiation machine at CPMC in SF.

    I had a very (relatively) easy time of it - has so much to do with luck, support, good medical care, positive attitude, and - did I mention - luck? I'm sure you have plenty of resources, but happy to share random tips, observations, strange side effects, etc. if you have any questions.
  • Lonnie Robinson · 5 months ago
    Hang in there Drew. I wish you the best. I'll do my best to help you beat the Hell out of Cancer! I always tell me family, friends, enemies and strangers: "Make TODAY Your Greatest!"
  • Jeffrey Walker · 5 months ago
    We need humor in the Cancer Club. So, Welcome. I've been blogging about mine off and on... http://tinyurl.com/plt2o7 I suspect you will devise your own survival methods, but from someone currently whipping Cancer's Sorry Ass, good luck my friend. Peace -- Jeffrey Walker
  • jtillery · 5 months ago
    Dude, sorry to hear that. I hope you totally get cured from it. Thanks for sharing your awesome attitude with the world.
  • Geoffrey Faivre-Malloy · 5 months ago
    Awesome meme Drew! :)

    I fought Hodgkin's for 6 years before I beat it. Had 2 stem cell transplants, multiple rounds of chemo, radiation, etc.

    It's tough but the fight is worth it!

    And guess what? You're part of an elite group called "Cancer Survivors" now :) That's right - from day one you're a member.
  • Chris · 5 months ago
    You will win Drew!

    But while you are still fighting you just helped put a smile on my face. The important thing is having a positive impact on other peoples lives, and even though I dont know you, you managed to impact my life today.

    I #BlameDrewsCancer for some bad things that happened but I thank you for your strength making me stronger.

    Stay strong! ;)
  • micah · 5 months ago
    I would like to #blamedrewscancer that I am just reading this post (fucking non-stop travel).

    There are few people that I respect and love more than you, my friend.

    The only piece of advice I can think of is: if the chemo makes you really pukey, just tell people you are pregnant.
  • LaRoumiss · 5 months ago
    Hi Drew,

    Really sorry to hear you have Hodgkin's. Heard this thru Twitter even though I don't know you!

    I got diagnosed with the same cancer at age 26 - stage 4 (it had spread to my lungs, to my bones and I had too many tumors to count.. literally!! One of the main mass was pretty much as a big as a grapefruit)
    I described my tumors as lights on a Christmas tree (from a picture from my PET Scan..!) and like you kept a blog about it (but now is long gone.. long story, short decision) - but it helped A LOT to write about it.

    You've got to vent and make fun of it.

    When I went bald, got tatooed with dots for the radiation therapy, and had scars from surgeries, I decided that I was a pirate pageant, then later on I was a really cool punk / goth (hey you can't beat the white face from anemia, and skinny look from chemo!!).

    Briefly, it happened in 2004. Now I'm 31, and cancer free.

    In a sad way, I was happy it was Hodgkin's, as it is said it is an easy cancer to beat.. well, I don't know what part of cancer is easy, but in cancer world, it's not the worse to get. Although, it ain't a competition...

    The things I will not change over if I had to re-live it:
    -strangely enough, the cancer itself.

    Now things, I did that I think have helped me:
    -switch my diet to: no-sugar, completely organic vegetarian except white fish and salmon for omega's 3's.
    -Kept hydrated, and drank as much water as I could to eliminate toxins
    -SLEPT and SLEPT whenever
    -Have the port installed to get chemo in
    -use a special cream to numb the area of the skin where the port is located when they inserted the needle for the chemo (I think cream is called EMLA)
    -chew on a lemon candy when they cleaned up the port before inserting the chemo (the saline always made me queasy, not the chemo..)

    What I would change if I could have:
    -tell people about Chemo brain, so that they don't worry that I had lost my head on top of my hair...
    -DO let people help me
    -Learn about the benefits of ginger candy, gingerale against nausea
    before having nausea...

    It was a wake-up call for me, and I would not change much really, as where I am now depends on what happened then.

    Yes, it is a battle, and it will be tough - you may sometimes feel down, but it is a battle that can be won. And you can win it, you'll see, it's not about "ifs" - you will win over it.

    As a funny side note, my hair grew back completely curly and nuts, so I was named in order: Chia Pet, then later on when it got longer: The Brady Bunch.. Now it's back to normal. Lennon style :)

    All the Luck, my cancer changed my life, but for the better. Weird, hey? It all depends on the angle we choose to go with.

    I think you've got the right one :)
  • Jay Cuthrell · 5 months ago
    I ran into you a few times at SxSW and appreciated seeing you in the crowd. You're good peeps.

    And I'm already finding a way to #BlameDrewsCancer.

    Dude... I didn't know what that hash tag was about until MG from TC posted on FF. That's a lot of two letter combos right there.

    I thought #BlameDrewsCancer was about Drew Carey and for this I can only #BlameDrewsCancer.

    (Yeah. I don't get out much.)

    I'd like to see The Price Is Right do the -right- thing and give you a slot on the basis of their viral marketing techniques impregnating my brain (and countless others I'm sure) with this conflation of Drew's.

    If The Price Is Right doesn't do this I'd suggest retroactively revoking their right to #BlameDrewsCancer.
  • Jo · 5 months ago
    I am going to blame my dog's bad behavior and my fear of living fully on Drew's cancer. And then I'm going to really examine my fear, because I have been getting multiple messages from the universe, including the one that directed me to this site, to conquer the fear and find joy again.

    Your life force jumps off the page, and your open heart is inspiring. I'll be back for updates.
  • trawna · 5 months ago
    Please may I use your site to tell everyone about the bone marrow donor program, which helps people with lymphoma and leukemia to find a match. My daughter joined last year and is currently a potential match for a lymphoma patient. Please encourgage all to join the donor registry FREE on June 8th: http://tinyurl.com/qk7cbo.
  • Mark Douglass · 5 months ago
    Wow, what strength you have. What a great way to deal with a really shitty situation! Best of luck to you, Drew!
  • tspinner · 5 months ago
    I blame Drew's Cancer for my own Stage IV diagnosis (Jan. 09)

    oh yeah, and I got laid off four months later...
  • Danielle · 5 months ago
    Drew ~ your story could be mine, except I had all the symptoms of Hodgkin's Lymphoma. I just thought I had a bad cough until the doctor discover the lump in my neck. And then I knew ~ my sister was diagnosed 15 years earlier with it. I had a five year old and six month old. I was diagnosed as stage 4 and just decided to figure out the course of action with the doctor and do it, I was not going to leave this earth! 6 months of chemo and Rituxan and I was in remission. 1 year after my diagnosis, I was pregnant with my baby! We're now a family of five and life is good!
  • LeeAnn · 5 months ago
    I was diagnosed with HL June 21, 2008, also in Philadelphia. Willing to share my experience, strength, and hope via "scullerchic" on twitter. I'm cancer free, 5-months post-treatment, and will be racing a mixed-double with my strength training coach who trained me through-out treatment next Saturday, June 13th, Schylkill Navy Regatta! To quote Rocky, I want to go the distance AND continue LIVINGSTRONG! LeeAnn
  • Andrew Nerney · 5 months ago
    Drew, I don't have twitter and don't plan on getting, but your name is popping up all over Facebook. Since we share a name, I blame your cancer for breaking into my car last night and stealing my Blackberry charger. I blame your cancer for the City of Brotherly Love instead being the City of Brotherly Thieves. I blame your cancer for the thief breaking my car window while it was raining, and for my seat and floorboard getting soaked. I blame your cancer for me not being able to get an appointment at a trustworthy glass repair shop or at the detail shop until tomorrow. I blame your cancer for me getting a parking ticket on top of all of that.

    I also blame your cancer for me choosing a high deductible on my car insurance and therefore having to pay for all of this shit out of pocket.

    Tell your cancer to fuck off.
  • Jerri · 5 months ago
    I came across your site via Lance Armstrong's Twitter page. I must say it give me a chuckle.

    I was diagnosed with HL in 2006 and by May of 2007 I thought I had won.

    But the bastard popped up again last year. So now I'm in the process of working towards a stem cell transplant.

    I guess I'll blame it on your cancer. If I could remember my twitter's login info!
  • jc · 5 months ago
    hang in their brother - and - I am blaming your cancer for the really cruddy salad I just had at lunch........
  • jc · 5 months ago
    Of course I mean hang in THERE ... not their. I blame your Cancer for that typo as well........
  • Julie O'Malley · 5 months ago
    Drew.. I'm right there with you. I have metastatic endometrial bone cancer and have been in treatment since October of 2008.

    And I #blamedrewscancer for that, too.

    Keep laughing. At some point lime Jell-O will become a viable food group.
    @j_omalley
  • Melaina Gautier · 5 months ago
    Drew, I heard you this morning on 94.7 and wow talk about making my morning. I have been in such a dark place lately, dealing with being the bread winner, having 2 kids, 3yrs and 19 months, and also finally realizing I have had post partum depression that I allowed to control me and go un treated. I am handling it now in fact I was driving back from my shrinks at the time.
    I love your outlook and humor, we lost my mother in law to a primary brain tumor on New Years Day in 2007 so the last 3 1/2 yrs has been busy with having 2 kiddos and losing a mother.
    I am in Clinical Research and have been since 1999 after I lost my 1st son at birth, I was 23. My job has been so therapeutic and although I am not the scientist making the drugs I am an integral part of the research process which is very rewarding and it also helps me know the people we lost have not been in vain.
    I would love to chat with you off line or via email I am sure there would be a way we could work together especially with the Oncology group within my company to help you with your final goal.

    Let me know what you think... Melaina Gautier, mgautier@incresearch.com

    I will be blaming Drew's Cancer on my kids not napping, me not losing baby weight, forgetting to pay the mortgage...so many things.

    Drew you are awesome and you have a new fan and a new supporter....

    All the best,
    M
  • Julie · 5 months ago
    May 18, 1999 I was diagnosed with Stage 4 Hodgkins Lymphoma. My oncologist told me "I've lost 1 patient to this cancer and it was because he refused treatment - do the treatment and you will be just fine." I did what sounds like the same chemo plan 24 weeks every other week for treatment and 10 years later I am a cancer survivor.

    I use May 18th as my Cancerversary - diagnosis day is the day your life changes and you'll see that as you OWN cancer and win it is an amazing experience. As crazy as it sounds I wouldn't change that aspect of my life. Cancer changed me for the better and being a survivor is the best thing I could of asked for.

    You have my support!
  • missbhavens · 5 months ago
    Grab cancer by it's ear, wrestle it to the ground and stop on its face.

    (cancer pisses me off)
  • vocono · 5 months ago
    I blame the sometime incompetance of Unicare,Medicare,and Med i cal on Drews cancer. Wow, you are an unbelievably frustrating cancer Drew.You need to just die and make everybody happy,Now,right this minute,DIE.......You are OVER,GONE, DONE....FINIS. This goes for my 4th stage cancer too.
  • vocono · 5 months ago
    I have been kicking my 4th stage, terminal cancers ass since I found Know The Cause.com. I just began my 5th month on the Phase 1 Diet with antifungal supplements and its keeping me alive and still kickin'. Its doing what surgery,radiation and numerous rounds of chemotherapy could not do. Its kept me feeling like I want to live afterall.Check it out Drew,its definitely worth it.
    With Warmest Regards,Ill be checkin'on you
  • jkunin · 5 months ago
    Rooting for you all the way! Putting you in my prayers and cursing your stupid cancer.

    Will spread the word and continue to blame your cancer (#BlameDrewsCancer) for everything.
  • Steve Rubel · 5 months ago
    We're pulling for you. Thank you for being so open.
  • Cecelia · 5 months ago
    What you're doing is awesome, Drew! Godspeed to your beating this and oh...btw...

    To Cancer:

    You can go suck it!

    Sincerely,
    Cecelia
  • James Howe · 5 months ago
    Drew, Hodgkin's sucks, but you can beat it. I was diagnosed with Stage IVB Hodgkin's in 1996. Several months of chemo + radiation was a pain, but I managed to work through almost the entire treatment and 13 years later I'm still clean. If you haven't check it out, there is a web site/mailing list dedicated to Hodgkin's patients which was started by a guy who got the disease about the same time as I did. He was also a Stage IVB and is still here as well.

    I love your #BlameDrewsCancer campaign, brilliant idea. Good luck and hang tough.
  • Maria · 5 months ago
    I can tell from the pictures my cousin Sandra has posted that you have a real zest for life. So kick cancer's ass! And if not for your stupid cancer, I'd be dating George Clooney right now.
  • Tamara · 5 months ago
    Son completing chemo for the same cancer.... 15 and handling it great.... keep blogging.... don't want to blame you as he was diagnosed months before you.... but love the humor from Austin Texas.... will follow your journey as it is so great to have others who you don't know...
  • SteveCherches · 5 months ago
    Drew,

    Been wondering what the hashtag meant. You're awesome...!

    I have a friend who was recently diagnosed with colon cancer, and her mindset is like yours. She keeps whispering, "It's the cancer." I'm wondering how much crap she'll get away with for the time-being.

    Hey, I think I'll blame HER cancer on YOUR cancer...!!! And, I'll send her a link to your website for sure.

    Kick cancers ass...! Steve
  • Steven Neville · 5 months ago
    All the best dude. I'll be blaming everything on your cancer now! Such a great lighthearted approach to the fight
  • Phil Glockner · 5 months ago
    Drew, I only met you very briefly this year and chatted with you a few times, but I think your approach is courageous and great. Hopefully soon, you'll have to go back to blaming your keys for losing themselves. :)
  • philafication · 5 months ago
    All the best for these tough times. People make it thru cancer, please be one of them.
  • Tia Marie · 5 months ago
    You're an incredible guy Drew. You bet that I'm going to be blaming your cancer on the thralls of things I can find.

    Let me know if you need absolutely anything. We Community Managers got to stick together <3
  • marlana · 5 months ago
    Hi Drew, can I blame your cancer for giving me cancer? ha ha j/k

    Someone posted your story on a hodgkins forum and I came to read and I have to say I love your sense of humor through such a horrible thing. I was diagnosed with stage2 Hodgkins November 9, 2008 a month after my little girl turned one. I didnt take the news as well as you and cried for about a month straight, I started chemo that December and once I realized it was something doable and not as bad as what some people think I was ok. I've been able to pretty much do the same things I did before the big C decided to try to take up residence in my neck minus a few days where I am pretty tired right after chemo. It's hard work kicking cancers ass AND taking care of a one year old but for some reason I feel stronger than ever.

    Stay positive, it goes a long way. :) If you need to talk to someone who has been through the same thing just email me. (marlana_810@yahoo.com) You'll kick this cancer's hiney just like me. :)

    The great news for me is that my last pet scan was good and I only have one more chemo to go (which will be next Thursday).
  • lindser · 5 months ago
    My husband is a hodgkins lymphoma survivor (two years of a clean bill of health now - rock on!) - you can visit his website at www.fungibleconvictions.com to read his story. We will now blame our lousy weather and our dog's misbehavior on your cancer. Booo cancer!
  • brettwilliams · 5 months ago
    i have cancer too....
  • Squirreltoofies · 5 months ago
    Hi. Don't know you and you don't know me. I was diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer about 3 months ago. You have cancer too. Now we know more about each other than we probably should. Nice to meet you.

    I also have a blog for friends and family that's really helping me, and them. I'm not raising money, just spirits. Keep up the great attitude!!!

    BEST to you on this journey...
  • Squirreltoofies · 5 months ago
    BTW, "olanoff", Bulgarian? My name ends in "off" as well. So we have that in common too. :o)
  • Nat the Aussie · 5 months ago
    Hey Drew... Hope this finds you healthy and happy :)
    just thought i'd let you in on an Aussie secret. "Rooting" in our language means to have sexual intercourse with your special someone. Each time i read it in a post i get the giggles *grin*
    So... with that in mind, i'll be "rooting" for ya..
    Nat from Aus ;)
  • Liz · 5 months ago
    I've seen some great attitudes in the face of adversity before, but you win, in so many ways. I hope you kick this cancer's ass hard.
  • IanGuthridge · 5 months ago
    I am really impressed by how you are handling having cancer! I hope you can kick that cancer's ass so hard and fast that it will never even think about coming back.

    As it is, I BlameDrewsCancer for my laptop breaking.

    Good luck again,
    -Ian
  • Diana · 5 months ago
    Can I blame your cancer via facebook?

    You are one incredible guy, and I know that your attitude will go a long way toward knocking this shite to the ground.

    Bright blessings....
  • Diana · 5 months ago
    Can I blame your cancer via facebook?

    You are one incredible dude, and I believe that your attitude will kick this cancer shite to the ground.

    Bright Blessings..

    (if this posts twice, blame my browser... No, on 2nd thought #BlameDrewsCancer )
  • ashleylk · 5 months ago
    I just found out about what #blamedrewscancer. I just found out about you. From the comments I can see you're a stand-up dude. I wish you the best. I #blamedrewscancer for my complete lack of focus and ambition.
  • Joe · 5 months ago
    That's great Drew, I think not only have you a great idea but it feels great participating. Nothing's worse than going through difficulties alone so I am sure you feel strengthened by the attention and that in turn is surely helping your body fight as hard as it can.
  • MatthewS · 5 months ago
    Good attitude Drew. I was diagnosed with TC roughly 9 years ago and went through Chemo every day on even weeks and then twice on odd weeks. I did two cycles like that, losing hair and getting pretty sick from the rat poison. Twitter wasn't around at that point, but if it were I would have whole heartedly embraced your meme.

    So, I blame MY cancer that happened 9 years ago on your cancer.
  • diego_ev · 5 months ago
    Hey Drew, I was just on friendfeed and I saw a tweet by Jesse Stay that had #BlameDrewsCancer and I honestly didn't know what it was, but I visited your twitter profile and found this post.
    I just wanted to say that I love the way you are facing cancer, my mom had cancer 5 years ago, and all my family helped her to fight it and she's perfectly fine now. I'm 100% sure that you'll overcome this, because of the way you look at it.
    Just so you know, I'll start blaming everything on your cancer.
    Keep up the good attitude. My regards from México.
  • jules · 5 months ago
    Great attitude....I have two imposters on my chest due to Cancer...still here after 11yrs.
    Be strong and stay positive (a lot of people dont understand that headspace I discovered) and most of all keep smiling...while you still have your own teeth!
  • Angela · 5 months ago
    I love your attitude. I'll be blaming your cancer on everything! I wish you the best of luck.
  • Kat Armstrong · 5 months ago
    Drew - I love you my friend. Keep laughing, keep kicking ass - I'll take the names down along the way. You know where to find me, day or night.
  • Kate · 5 months ago
    Brilliant.
  • Lisa B. Marshall · 5 months ago
    Cancer?!?? That sucks!

    Your attitude? Awesome, as usual.

    I'm glad you've got strong family, friends & tweeple to support you through this.
  • jonnygoldstein · 5 months ago
    Yo dude. I got your back. Are you still allowed to drink beer? I'll buy you one.
  • carol lucas · 5 months ago
    Hi Drew,
    Your friend Carol here, sending love and best wishes from Seattle. Great to see that you and Mike are still doing great work together. LOVE BlameDrewsCancer - brilliant, brilliant, brilliant way to attack and kill this invader. Go get 'em.
    Carol
  • Steve Coulson · 5 months ago
    Hey Drew

    We met in Vegas last year, I'm CC's buddy.

    I'm sorry I'm so late to the party, man. I totally blame that on your cancer, OK? In fact, I've had a really shitty week or two, and the more I think about it now, the more I'm sure I can blame your cancer for most if not all of it.

    Sir, you are truly an inspiration, and please let me know if there's anything at all I can do to help. Your cancer, however, smells of elderberries
  • Ruth Mullen · 5 months ago
    Drew I'm blaming your cancer for my cancer, dammit. Cancer sucks. Kick that stuff in the ass. Mine was breast. 9 years free, come September. Love that past tense. Rooting for you, Drew. You are an inspiration!
  • Bas · 5 months ago
    Woah, heavy stuff. Sorry to hear! Hope you'll get well soon and that the chemo treatment won't be too heavy.

    Hitting close to home actually since my mom was recently diagnosed with cancer and is a terminal patient (but then again, life is terminal).

    Actually, now that I think about her situation... I might just have to #BlameDrewsCancer !

    ;-)

    Good luck man. Stay strong! Stay positive!

    @Spartz
  • Doug · 5 months ago
    Drew, I was diagnosed with Hodgkins back in 1991, as a young new father at the time. I, like you had stage 3B and went through 1`2 chemos (2 each month) and followed that up with 5 weeks of radiation each day. It sucked, but I beat it.
    Since then life has been going well. I now have 3 wonderful kids and 2 fantastic step kids. I never stopped working, never stopped joking, and never gave up. Doctors say I'm in remission. Dude, it's been since 1991 that I had any symptooms, so I say cured! Another good side effect...I am no longer scared of death. I respect death, but it does not freighten me.
    I wish all the best to you and will follow your travels. You are young, you're strong and you will kick cancers ass...just like I did. If you ever need to talk or whatever, I'm here. God bless!
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Doug, you're my freaking hero. Would love to interview you sometime if you have time. Drop me an email at drdrew@gmail.com

    Thank you!!!
  • Kite · 5 months ago
    Thanks for this--Ive been looking for something to blame things on and your cancer is the perfect scape goat. Im passing the word to all my friends to blame your cancer for all that needs blame!
  • Martha · 5 months ago
    I would blame Drew's cancer for the funeral I went to this weekend of my very good friend Carleen. But I will blame Carleen's cancer for that. I will blame Drew's cancer, though, for making a lot of people think about consequences. And I hope that from now on, you will only have to blame your cancer for positive consequences.

    All the best to you.

    Martha
  • Joy · 5 months ago
    Just got my diagnosis...but haven't been staged yet. I've got a LOT of things to #BlameDrewsCancer for...you are a GREAT role model for us!!!!!!!! Thanks!

    And, uh, yeah...this thing doesn't stand a CHANCE!!!!!
  • drewolanoff · 5 months ago
    Joy feel free to contact me any time. 415 238 8428. Hang in there, you will be and are awesome.
  • Nathan T. Wright · 5 months ago
    I've been following/aware of #blamedrewscancer on Twitter and just realized (after seeing a photo of you) that you're the same Drew I briefly shared a cab with in Vegas during BlogWorld 2008.

    Best wishes to you, and I admire your positive take on all this - I have no doubt you'll conquer it!
  • Julianne · 5 months ago
    Drew! You're truly and inspiration and well, have a great sense of humor. I totally love that you made lemonade out of this whole thing. I know you're going to beat this cancer and I wholeheartely support #blamedrewscancer. You are SO awesome. SF misses you!

    Julianne
    @bicoastalite
  • Joe Moreno · 5 months ago
    Drew,

    I wish you all the best. Ten years ago I was diagnosed with Hodgkin's IVb and now I'm completely cured - it's literally like I've never been sick:
    http://twitpic.com/6xyb8/full

    To a speedy recovery,
    Joe
  • TBlue92 · 5 months ago
    Yo Drew,

    Awesome website idea. I was diagnosed with Hodgkin's Lymphoma in Feb 2007 - right above the collarbone and right below the jawline. Treatment involved lymph node removal, ABVD (8cycles - shortened from 12) and 20 radiation treatments. Treatment was a bitch but as you can see, I am still here. Full remission as of October 2007.

    The great thing about cancer is ... all the bs and stress we fill our lives with went out the window. In all of my treatment, I never met a cancer patient who was angry or pitied themselves. You seem to be following that path also. Good on ya man!

    If you ever have any questions or just want to chat, hit me up. Best of luck!

    p.s. Maybe it's just me, but watermelon was a godsend during treatment. It helped to keep me hydrated and gave me nutrients when I couldn't stomach anything else.
  • Kimberly · 4 months ago
    Wishing you the best of luck. There were definitely two paths you could have chosen after finding out you have cancer -- kudos to you for choosing optimism and humor. Today I choose to #blamedrewscancer for my sunburn... and for the fact I fell up the stairs while running late to work this am. Stupid cancer. ;)
  • goldsteinmedia · 4 months ago
    Drew you're an inspiration. Turning adversity into a opportunity to help yourself and others. Good for you. If there is anything I can do (which I'm sure is not much) let me know. I will be blaming things on your cancer and keeping you in my thoughts.
  • CarolineMFR · 4 months ago
    I saw your blog on Livestrong... I can totally understand what you are going through - been there twice so far. My doctors apparently do not follow the script I wish they would read. Chemo sucks big time. I made it through 16 rounds. But this has been my motto since my first diagnosis in 1981 - Never Give Up Hope! Hang in there, keep blogging. I found blogging is a great way to vent while dealing with this little detour in life. http://carolinemfr.blogspot.com
  • whatsnext · 4 months ago
    I don't know how it took me so long to find out about this, but I #blamedrewscancer.

    Your friends, even ones like me, who've never met you, have your back. Beat up your stupid cancer.
    <3
  • MayankDhingra · 4 months ago
    Early this year my dad was also Diagnosed with a cancer(grade IV) of brain and I almost know what it feels like to be in that situation. He's on the road to recovery now and with God's grace doing well.
    I am happy that the prognosis of your disease is good and I like how you are giving it back to the disease.

    I #blamedrewscancer for cancer
  • Peter · 4 months ago
    Hi Drew:

    Do a google search for "essiac"

    It is considered nature's cure for cancer and I believe in it...

    It can not hurt you, it can only help.

    Please try it.

    Thanks...

    Peter
  • drewolanoff · 4 months ago
    Thanks for the comment Peter. I trust my Dr's and nurses 100%, and I believe that the regimen I'm on is the right one. I'm no pro, and people should definitely consult a Dr. before treating themselves in my humble opinion.
  • Ashley · 4 months ago
    Wow man, you are a true inspiration with your amazing attitude towards life.
    I blame cancer for everytime I wake up on the wrong side of the bed and the massive amount of debt I will have when I graduate college.
    But right now I blame Drew for putting a smile on my face!
  • Lindsay · 4 months ago
    Thank you for doing this. My Dad was diagnosed with stage 3 Hodgkin's Lymphoma last year and has stopped treatment. I hope by showing him what you are doing it will encourage him to keep fighting.
  • Joe · 4 months ago
    Good luck Drew...I was initially diagnosed as stage 4 Non -Hodgkins 15 years ago...been in and out of remission a number of times...It is all mental attitude...Just have to suck it up.....You will be fine!

    Joe
  • Lisa · 4 months ago
    What an amazing attitude that you have, Drew.

    I wish you the best.

    Lisa
  • deb newton · 4 months ago
    I can relate, too. So, I say: do not merely BlameDrewsCancer... SCREWDrewsCancer. That's what I said to mine almost two years ago (only it was DebsCancer that got screwed.)

    Yep, attitude is paramount. Bless you for getting out the word and for tacitly encouraging people to stand up to this nasty disease--and perhaps, to get early diagnoses.

    Good for you!
  • bravery13 · 4 months ago
    Good luck, Drew. I just went through chemo and radiation this past year for my Type II Hodgkin's Lymphoma. I went from being a sprite young, 27 year-old, pup to a guy with a port in his arm. Like yours, my chemo (ABVD) was every 2 weeks for six months, then radiation thereafter for a month.

    You may or may not lose your hair. You may or may not feel sick. You may or may not be tired. But you will want to keep busy (blog, take a walk, whatever) to whatever extent you can handle. I did not lose my hair, but it did thin. For the week after the treatment, I could only function for the first half of the day - the second half was nap time. It was like a long-lasting sugar crash. The week leading up to the next treatment I felt +-75% - tired but fully functional. My doctors were extremely pleased with my progress and kept asking what I was doing different. I went to work every day and made myself eat. I tried to keep a semi-normal life - but avoiding the sun and crowds. So, in reality, I did nothing different.

    Do get a port. If you haven't already, or if the doctors didn't even bring it up - get one. Seriously. I went 6 chemo treatments without one. Chemo burns.

    Do get a video-playing iPod or Zune with charger - or borrow one. Chemo will last only a couple hours, but that doesn't include wait time. I had spent many hours waiting at times.

    If you make food for others (I like to cook), you will gradually add more and more spices per your own taste senses until you are basically cooking a pile of salt and pepper. Let them make their own food, and try drinking a lot of smoothies. I had a couple per day - learn to make them at home, it will be cheaper.

    Anyway, HL is the best cancer to have. Sounds strange, but it's true. It's been studied since the mid-1800s, and, for our age group of 20 and 30-somethings, the cure-rate is above 95%. So, it won't be a question or if you will get better. It's a question of when you will, and what you will take out of it in the end and pass on for future survivors. If you have any q's (or need more specific advice), since your situation is as similar to mine as you can get, shoot me an email at bravery13@aol.com. Good luck, and squeeze out as much sympathy as you can! (kidding...maybe)

    Brian
  • Rachie · 4 months ago
    Awesome way to give back Drew! You hang in there, you are in my prayers!
  • Louise · 4 months ago
    I don't "twitter", but I'd like to help, Drew. Can I donate something via PayPal, and if so, where would I send the payment?

    I blame Drew's cancer for my not knowing. <heehee>
  • Laura · 4 months ago
    Drew I admire your strength, I lost my father two years ago this July to lung cancer and my mother is now battling Lung Cancer as well. Due to other complications she cannot take any treatment. I know the battle your facing both physically and mentally. My prayers are for you to beat this monster and go on to help others do the same. Stay Strong! I WILL be blaming Drew's Cancer from this point forward!
    God Bless!
  • Tracy Cafarella · 4 months ago
    Drew, this is Tracy. I think we should talk! I defeated Hodgkins Lymphoma....but it was a very tough road. I had 2 stem cell transplants. The first one was autogolous, the 2nd was allogeneic. I have been clean for 5 1/2 years, I am 32 years old now. Please contact me. I would love to talk to you.

    You can e-mail me at prettyladykt@aol.com
    Thanks,

    Tracy
  • Kathy · 4 months ago
    Drew, I was diagnosed with Stage III B Hodgkins and have been in remission and cancer free for 22 years!!! Best of luck ..keep your humor and your positive outlook, it goes a long way. I will be praying for you
  • Janet · 4 months ago
    Hey Drew,

    In March, 2007, my 10 year old daughter was diagnosed with Stage II(B) Hodgkins Lymphoma. She's been cancer free for almost 2 years now. She's stronger, tougher and for some reason, way funnier than she was before. Like Jared's mom, I blame my weight gain on your cancer. Hell, I'll blame all my bad crap on your cancer. Thanks for that. Stay strong and keep fighting. If a little girl can kick cancer's ass, so can you!

    Love,
    Shannon's mom
  • lizz · 4 months ago
    Very clever. Thanks Drew's Cancer. I will now be blaming everything on you as well.
  • Terry · 4 months ago
    Drew - I too had stage III Hodgkins Lymphoma - 21 years ago. I never dreamed I'd be OK for this long, but I have never had another bout with illness since then. I hope for the same for you.
  • Allie Wilkins · 4 months ago
    I am amazed by you! My son, Jeremy, was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer at 22 days old. He wasn't expected to live past 6 weeks, he is now 21 months old. I blame your cancer for his cancer =]

    www.caringbridge.org/visit/jeremyspikes

    You are amazing & I'm so proud of you!!!
  • Leah Tamar · 4 months ago
    Hi Drew,

    You're too young to go through this...Have you heard of "The One Minute Cure." It was sent to me from a friend in Australia who's wife is battling cancer.

    www.OneMinuteCureforAllDiseases.com
  • Stephanie Gilmartin · 4 months ago
    Drew, I was diagnosed with stage 2 Hodgkins in February, 2000. After 6 months of chemo and 22 radiation treatment, I am cancer free. Although the treatment is tough, you will get through it and look back on this chapter in your life as a positive new way to appreciate what we have every single day. Most people do not get this gift until much later in life. I was 34 years old and it has made me appreciate everything I have and helped me not get to upset about anything. I compare everything to having chemo and radiation and nothing yet has been as bad. I wish you luck with your treatment, stay strong and know that you can be 100% cured from this. Take care, Stephanie Gilmartin
  • Joey Cash · 4 months ago
    I would like to blame my first divorce on drews cancer Good luck drew and hit it in the head
  • P · 4 months ago
    I am so glad the lame AOL sent me to your site. I work for a cancer fundraising organization in the Bay Area. Would you believe I just took a 10 percent pay cut? I am glad I can blame your cancer for that! In cutting staff pay, we are able to maintain services for our cancer patients and their families. Great but, when can us NON-PROFIT employees receive our economic stimulus check??? Yep that's right there is no recession for cancer. Thank you for raising awareness! Keep fighting!
  • RBF · 4 months ago
    Althougth I don't know you, I can tell you are an amazingly strong person....and I have my suspicions that your mom is too! Hope I can be as strong and creative if I am ever....I can't even say it! Cancer scares the hell out of me and sure scares others as well. So you are helping us all by being brave, creative, and sharing your life with us! THANK you!
    God speed......look forward to watching you do great things in life!
    We need more of YOU!!!
    btw, I blame Drews cancer for my broken foot...and my sons fever!
  • Kath1021 · 4 months ago
    Hey Drew,
    I read about your story on AOL and had to write you a comment. On July 8, 2003 I was diagnosed with Stage II Hodgkin's. Actually, at first my primary care doctor told me it was a large cyst in my neck and sent me to a surgeon to have it removed. I went to the surgeon to have the "cyst" removed and she said "Oh so you have cancer huh?" So that's how I found out. Not the best way. The staging process, as I'm sure you know, is like you are living in a dream. You don't have time to digest the news before you are thrown into all sorts of machines, being poked and proded etc. They told me I was "lucky" to have this cancer since it is easily curable but who ever thinks they are "lucky" to have any kind of cancer? Long story short...I went through 8 months of chemo alone and have been in remission for 5 years now. 16 sessions every other week. My life consisted of getting chemo one week, feeling like crap, feeling better the next week then back to feeling like crap again. This whole process will change your outlook on so many things. You have to stay positive and know that you WILL get through this. I am living proof. I just got married on May 16 of this year and wouldn't trade my life for anything. I did not let cancer rule or ruin my life. I looked at it as another speedbump in this thing we call life. Good luck to you in your journey and I wish you all the best!
  • Morgan Anderson · 4 months ago
    Im going to blame my marphans syndrome on your cancer. Since my family cant seem to find any one in my family who has it. Figured i finnaly have somehting to blame it on. Thanks man and hurry up and kick its ass! Lol
    Much Love

    Morgan
    MADrums Ent.

    P.S. When i get my ssd check ill be glad to donate! LAter
  • Maggie Mendoza · 4 months ago
    You are amazing Drew! Your attitude towards your battle with this horrible thing called cancer is commendable! My sister in law Nicole a few years ago had Hodgkins lymphoma, they said she would never have kids after her chemo and now she has a beautiful baby girl named Madison. She has also kicked cancer's ass and is now in remission.Never give up! nmbr1clsr@aol.com
    Maggie
  • peg · 4 months ago
    Drew,
    When I got cancer a few years ago, I was like "Great. Now I have to live up to Lance Armstrong. He does everything amazing even battle cancer." And then when I got my cancer "Welcome Kit" which included a stuffed boob for me to use after surgery (it moved all over the place btw, couldn't keep track of the thing. I'd look down and one side would be up; the other down - the worst was when my dog was running around the house with it...) along with a cute little embroidered pillow with a comforting saying, I knew I was determined to find the humor in all of it. And of course, there is. What you're doing in reaching out is what makes the internets amazing. It's not the pay per clicks or the monetization - it's the direct connection when people are in need of other people going through similar things. You, as you now well know, are NOT alone. And now Lance Armstrong has a true contender.
  • Maureen · 4 months ago
    I lost my boobs and my hair to cancer. So nice to know I have Drew's cancer to thank for that!!! You rock! I'm a five year survivor now and a sense of humor will get you through a lot of the cancer crap!! Keep laughing bud!!!
  • Helene · 4 months ago
    HEY DREW-You keep fighting dude!
    I am a cancer survivor going on 5 yrs and loving every day !!!!!!!
  • Mary · 4 months ago
    Giving up is never an option! I love your attitude!!! My 16 year old daughter was diagnosed 8/07 with Hodgkin Lymphoma. Then re-diagnosed 2/08 with Primary Refractroy Hodgkin Lymphoma - the one that doesn't want to leave! She has told me that "Cancer needs a mother - to tell it what to do!" How true - ya think? We have been to Boston, Houston now we are back in Syracuse, NY. Her first day of High School - she had her first chemo. Since then - she has lost her hair twice. The least of our worries though. Right?? The tumor in her chest - just will NOT leave. It has decreased in size - only to return ..very angry. Your stories mirror each other in how you found out. The lymph node. Drew - when this is done you are going to walk away with an unbelievable understanding of the human body. Perhaps that is something that you were never interested in pre-cancer. But - it is now a part of your life. Knowing what doctors are talking about - is truly scary - - but really cool too at the same time. I wish you nothing but good health! Your writings reflect that you ARE going to be ok! The only thing that I can blame Drews cancer on - - is that this is the web. I'd love for your family and mine to sit and talk. If your ever in Rome, NY in a June - check out the Cancer Jam! Rock and Roll and lots of good people and a good time!
    Kindest Regards,
    Ayla's Mom
  • drewolanoff · 4 months ago
    Thank you so much for the comments everyone. I'll be replying to all of you soon. I seepy right now. ZzzZzzzZzzzzz. <3
  • yahweh70 · 4 months ago
    Hi Drew, I got your link via Deanna Brooks. I was diagnosed with NHL in the spleen, under the armpit, bone marrow and groin back in October/Sept. I was admitted to hospital, and with the occasional home trip when conditions allowed. I temporarily lost weight, most of which has stayed off (good thing).

    I got the all clear in May after leaving hospital in March. It can be beaten. It is very indiscriminate, as the range of ages in Daycase and my ward would attest to.

    I had a hickman line, which although initially uncomfortable, prevents your hands from becoming pin cushions with all the canulas being put in every so often.

    Good luck mate
  • donpresson · 4 months ago
    Drew, great idea! I was diagnosed on June 9 with NH Lymphoma stage 3. Chemo on June 22 (first one) next one next Monday. Hair started falling out today. But I feel great. I hope you are doing well!
  • sonny · 4 months ago
    Hey man,

    I just checked out your site(s), and think your attitude and efforts are truly inspirational. Happy to help however I can, and hope we can meet up when you're in SF.

    Best wishes,

    Sonny Caberwal
  • Hannah · 4 months ago
    Hey Drew.
    I heard about the Blame Drew's Cancer website through Lance Armstrong's twitter page. I think what you are doing is amazing. Its great just to blame what ever is bugging me on something and get it off my chest. I live in Australia and I hope that you kick cancers butt. Its about time that someone had the guts to do what you are doing.
    Best Wishes,
    Hannah
  • Amanda · 4 months ago
    Hi Drew,

    Your sense of humor and optimism are inspiring! I was hoping that I could use this post to encourage the readers of your blog to consider becoming bone marrow donors. For some patients battling blood cancers, bone marrow transplants are the only cure. Unfortuantely, only 3 out of 10 patients will get the transplant that they need. Part of the problem is that there are not enough willing donors. We need more donors on the registry to help save lives. You can become a donor by clicking here http://www.dkmsamericas.org/marrow-donor-form

    Drew- Thank you for creating the site and the blog. You are helping so many people with your words!
  • Jennifer Pates · 4 months ago
    i LOVE this!! I am a 6 year Cervical cancer survivor and from now on EVERYTHING will be blamed on Drew's Cancer =)
    Keep on keepin on =)
  • Terri · 4 months ago
    Hey Drew!
    My daughter was diagnosed last May with the beast(Hodgkins)and kicked it's ass!! You WILL too!! You go!!!
  • Brian Daniels · 4 months ago
    I was diagnosed with Colon Cancer January of this year. I was devastated when the results came back. I had been in and out of the ER department 2 months prior for pain in my stomach area. They finally saw the mass in my colon and had to run a colonoscopy and had and emergency colostomy procedure. The test revealed a mass on both sides of my colon. Man, talk about going from bad to worst. I had to have surgey a week later to remove both masses and re-connect my colon again. That was the most pain I had every felt after surgery. Walking was a major feat and taking deep breaths were very difficult. When the Pathology reports came back that it was cancer and I needed chemo, my wife and I were shocked. We shed many tears and thought how did we get here? I am happy to say that I completed 9 treatments out of 12 and that my CEA numbers are good. This experience has brought me to an understanding that God wanted me to experience this proccess to purify me as gold. To take a look at what the issues are in my life and my releatinship with Him and my family. I would work a million hours, but my family suffered for that. I at first wanted to blame cancer for all I was going through, but it actually put life into perspective. Look at your situation and see what you are to learn from it. There is a learning opprotunity in every situation we go through. For the first time, I am able to write these things down and share with others who may be going through some situation with Cancer. I thank you for this outlet.
  • Angela · 4 months ago
    Hey Drew...read about your story yesterday on Larry Mendte's blog...great story, sad reason. But already I've started blaming things on your cancer! It's so easy! Couldn't find my wallet last night...I blamed Drew's cancer! Thinking about you, praying for you, and smiling the entire time! God Bless!
  • Deborah and Jennifer · 4 months ago
    How many times do we see good things come from bad things? Over and over. My 27 year old daughter has luekemia. It has forever changed us to be better people, Funny how that works. Good Luck
  • Linda Bowman · 4 months ago
    Hi Drew,

    This is brilliant. Sadly, I lost my cousin to Stage IV Hodgkins in 1993. Now I can blame it on Drew's cancer. I am spreading the word to everyone I know. Can we use Facebook or does it have to be Twitter? If we can't use Facebook I will blame that on Drew's cancer, too.

    You are an amazing young man, doing amazing things. Cancer, schmancer.
  • Melissa Eng-Pascual · 4 months ago
    One of my fab sorority sisters found your site and sent to me. I've got Hodgkins too, and I'm going for my first of 12 tomorrow morning. I told the Dr that he couldn't be right, I'm too busy to have cancer! I hope you are doing well and raising lots of $$$ to get rid of this damn diease!
  • samantha Sonnak · 4 months ago
    Hello Drew!
    My boyfriend, iconjohn led me to this site and it has really inspired me. I am a cancer survivor of 30+years....ALL or Acute Lymphocytic Leukemia to be exact. I was diagnosed in the 70's and given 2 weeks to live when I got to Mount Sinai Hospital in NYC. People were not as knowledgeable or open about talking about cancer then as they are today....at least today some people talk about their experiences. I think that your website and attitude are fabulous!! You are being open in honest about your experiences and fears and hopes and facing things as head on as you can.
    Back in 1976, things were way different and very isolating for me. I felt very alone and weird because I didn't know anyone personally who was experiencing what I was. My parents didn't like to talk about my "sickness", so it wasn't until I was older that I shared my experiences with others. I guess it was a sign of the times...all the secrecy and misinformation and stigma. It is refreshing that you are charging at this and not only keeping a positive outlook, but giving hope to others through your sharing.
    I never thought about naming my ex-cancer, but now I am. What a great idea!!
    Good luck with your treatment and attitude is everything, so kick HL's ASS!
  • Marilyn Moran · 4 months ago
    I am organizing an event this Saturday (July 18th) at Tir na n0g in Philadelphia. I'd like to know how I can help. The party is for geeks from all walks of life: computer geeks, art geeks, pop culture geeks, music geeks, etc. It is simply called "Philly Geek Party" or @phillygeekparty. I'm also going to be DJ'ing the party since it's more of a blow off steam, dance and socialize party for geeks. However, I'm also in the process of wrangling up some prizes and drink specials. Might do a raffle for the prizes but I don't want to make any money. I want the money to go towards a local ("geeky") cause. #BlameDrewsCancer is a great cause! Please let me know if we can help.
  • Paul Cacciatore · 4 months ago
    Hey Drew,

    I lost my 26 yr. old cousin to ovarian cancer one year ago. Libby's H*O*P*E* (*Helping *Ovarian Cancer Survivors *Persevere Through *Education) is dedicated to her memory. Check it out at http://healthinfoispower.wordpress.com

    Just want to let you know that we are rooting for you. We know that "NED" (no evidence of disease) is in your future.

    The "blamedrewscancer" idea is shear brilliance! Keep the faith and keep fighting!

    Best, Paul
  • SRoss82 · 4 months ago
    You are amazing! I was laughing out loud at that blog. My dad was diagnosed w/prostate cancer on May 1st..started up my own blog to get through it/educate folks. (http://teamgshock.blogspot.com).

    Can I blame his cancer on yours? ;) Or maybe we'll just kick them both to the curb and be done with it? Ok? Ok.
  • kmonroy · 4 months ago
    Hi Drew, You might want to contact the Paul R. Nardoni Foundation//active at U of Penn. They are a wonderful organization that supports patients and their families during treatment.
    I have done some volunteer work for them and they are first class.
    http://prnfoundation.org/
    Congrats on your idea and great attitude. Remember it is a blessing to give and receive. 6 months of Chemo is a long time, we all need to be strong enough to ask for help :-).
    Blessings,
  • michelelevin · 4 months ago
    Hey Drew,
    I blame my friend's cancer on yours. Let the dueling cancers kick each's oncobutts. Lost my mom and dear friend to breast cancer. Can't thank you enough for letting everyone spread their words and raising money to beat cancer 4 good. Hope everyone who asks me about this crazy #BlameDrewsCancer tee shirt donates. You rock!
  • Afrodesia · 3 months ago
    Can I blame my dad's cancer on your cancer? Y'know, like a double negative = a positive kinda thing?

    Actually, pops is 84 and had colon cancer a few years back. I flew back home, kicked a little butt & he's been going for about 5 years now. Well, we think there's a recurrence/spreading but he seems to feel pretty good these days so we're just chillin'. I plan on making some pretty bad jokes about it...he'll appreciate it.

    Mom had some colon cancer in the meantime but she did her own little a**-kickin' and she's been up to her old antics for about 3 years running.
    So while I'm sure I'll be on the receiving end of the 'long hose' sometime in the future, I'm from pretty strong stock.
    -TRACY
  • anita tedaldi · 3 months ago
    Thank you for sharing this. I just found your site - I hope you're doing well today.
    You're such an inspiration
    Hugs
    Anita
  • Zach · 3 months ago
    Just had my Post-Chemo PET Scan today. Six months of Chemo isn't that long, comparatively, but it's not easy. Good luck, keep yourself focused on the end and get your rest. May you find remission in a few months.
  • Susan Block · 3 months ago
    Drew,
    I was diagnosed with stage II Hodgkins Disease when I was 21, thirty-four years ago!!! I was treated with 12 wks of x-ray radiation therapy. You can beat this.
  • Erin Waterman · 3 months ago
    Why am I commenting on a blog of some random guy I never met? Because stage III non-Hodgkin lymphoma hijacked the body of my only child and then 4-year-old daughter. After 2 years of treatment, she is now 8, about to start 3rd grade, and thriving. I can now officially blame her cancer on your cancer. How generous of you. Keep on keeping on. "Once you have been through hell, the fire can't touch you any more" (a line from a song).
  • Esther · 3 months ago
    I'm 25 years out from the same diagnosis.Back in the dark ages there was no zofran, no support and noone to talk to about it (except my good as gold husband). But, 25 years later I've got 2 healthy kids, a great life and and an abundance of appreciation and gratitude that lasts forever. You'll be there too...
  • katie · 3 months ago
    you are an inspiration. thanks for sharing your story.
  • mmontero38 · 3 months ago
    Drew, I'll blame yours for my cancer and you can blame mine on yours. LOL. Good luck buddy. It's always an uphill battle but stay optimistic. Every time I go for tests and get the NED (no evidence of disease) is a time for celebration. Hopefully, you will get many of those in the years to come. Hugs, Lili
  • lisa4cure · 3 months ago
    Here is my blog summarizing my last year. www.iwantsweetpotatofries.blogspot.com

    I just found your site and I love it. It is nice to know we are fighting together.
    :)
  • rodneymbrockjr · 3 months ago
    Hey Drew,

    I love your site. Cancer hits close to home my Mom is battling brest cancer as well speak, my Grandmother, Grandfather and Dad all had cancer so far my Mom is the only one to kick it in the butt. I wish the very best for you in your journey.
    God Bless
  • debbieschaeffer · 3 months ago
    I wish you were around when i was fighting my battle with Hodgkins, stage 2A...you are an insperation to all! Currently 2 1/2 years in remission and loving every minute of it...except of course the follow up appts...i get extremely nervous when its time for a scan again.
  • gavmorein · 3 months ago
    Hey Drew
    My name is Gavin and I had stage 4 testicular cancer that messed up my Kidney and Ureter, I had a nice big lymph node dissection and after all that my Chemo then went and messed my hip up and I had a hip re-surfacing which isn't still quiet right. Its funny how things work because I'm going for a 3 month CT scan tomorrow morning and I kind of always feel a bit shitty the night before so I sat down to check my mail and I get a post from Livestrong(Lance you Legend!!) and that sends me over to your page which I read and suddenly all my fears seem that little bit easier. Yes its hard battling with Cancer but you WILL beat it and I believe the more we talk about it and the more we get web sites going and do our bit we take away that little bit of power the disease may think it has over us. So on that note you keep doing what you do my man and please feel free to drop me a mail to have a chat anytime. Nice try Cancer but we aint gonna take your shit!!!
  • Janine · 3 months ago
    Hey Drew,

    Just came upon your website (since you emailed me through Livestrong) and I love it!

    My kids will be thrilled that I can begin to blame everything on your cancer rather than on mine -- Stage III small bowel cancer. Rare with a "poor" prognosis. Diagnosed three years ago and still here today -- to the wonderment of some family, friends, and docs!

    So glad you're staring down cancer. BTW -- who really wants to take a dream job in LA when you can spend more time in lovely Philly. I love this town!

    Janine
  • ratboy · 3 months ago
    Hey Drew,
    Read through your blog and had to post as I am a rare 3 time Hodgkin survivor and classify myself now as a professional Hodgkin fighter (since 1996). Now don’t get me wrong I have kicked “his” ass as I was in remission for 10 years but during that time I believe “he’d” been training and keeps wanting a “rebout” (over the past three years). I believe I have just TKO’d him this time as I completed my 2nd bone marrow transplant 7 months ago and continue to remain clean. I attribute my recent success to a new clinical drug (which I literally was a lab rat for) called SGN35. Through my last bout I had chemo for 4 months with very little success and was lucky enough to be asked to enter a clinical study for this new drug (mainly used for Hodgkin disease) and was in remission within 2 months! The nice thing about this drug is that it’s an antibody drug not chemo. I relate it to an atom bomb (kills everything – chemo- toxic) vs a smart bomb (kills only the target-antibody-nontoxic). Although not FDA approved yet it has entered it’s pivotal phase and should be ready for prime time soon. We all need to push for these antibody type drugs that fight cancers to get to market quickly, they are saving lives, I am living proof!
    I completely understand what you’re going through and as I’ve coached others before winning the fight is 98% attitude. From the looks of it, You got it!!!! Keep that chin up and you can do anything!
    One thing I’d like share with you about having cancer is it makes you look “Great”. If you haven’t noticed already; no matter what kind of day your having, no matter how you feel, no matter if you have hair or bald spots from your hair falling out, regardless of what you really look like people will always tell you “You look Great!”. So there you go, you can blame it on drews cancer! Cheers to you, you’re gonna beat it!
    If you ever need an ear to bend please reach out and feel free to contact me!
  • martinrowe · 3 months ago
    Hey Ratboy,
    I'm in your club too, I had Hodgkins Lymphoma right thru the 80's (82-90) - it came back 3 times after my initial diagnosis. So here we are 19yrs later & no more cancer.
    Stay strong...I'm sure you'll win.
  • Kathy Walton · 3 months ago
    Drew, you are an amazing person in the way you are coping. My husband fought for 3 1/2 years with stage four Melanoma and wrote a book on how he dealt with it using humor. It has been therapeutic for us as family members and he gave him a reason to live. Almost Always Fatal-Surviving Cancer with a sense of Humor is the name of it. I just rec'd an e-mail from a 79 year old woman who lives in Texas who read the book and contacted me. She is a breast cancer survivor and was looking for a book that had humor while dealing with cancer and she found Chuck's book. It made my day!
  • superman98 · 3 months ago
    My hero is my son Devan. August 1st he turned 31. January 2000 he was diagnosed with a spot on the brain. January 2001 he was diganosed with stage 4 Hodgkins Lymphoma. He went through everything that you going through. Loss of hair, sores in the mouth. He is what they call cured from Hodgkins. In May of 2002 the spot on the brain had grown and is now an Astrosytoma tumor. June of that year he had brain surgery. We live right outside of New Oreleans in Metairie and right after Katrina the tumor was growing so he underwent radiation to the brain. Everything was going great til December of 2008 when he started having seizures. His Astrosytoma has grown and now he is diagnosed with a Glioblastoma tumor. He is taking one day at a time and still has plan for the furture. He has started on chemo again. He says that he is still here and will keep on going like the Energizer bunny. I am so proud of him. He has his bad days but that is OK. If you would see him you would not think that he going through what he is. He is my rock and my hero. As I am writing this, there is a little robot superman on the side of the page. That is Devan his e-mail address is superman_dk78@yahoo.com

    My God Bless Everyone with Cancer
    Love
    Devan's Mom
    Karen
  • I-270, Exit 1 · 3 months ago
    If Mexico beats the US today, I will hold your cancer personally responsible and kick it's little ass myself.

    My cancer is rooting for the US.
  • kathy_n_Sally · 3 months ago
    GOOOOO DREW!!!! Until you're faced with finding out whether or not cancer is present, you just don't think it will ever happen in your lifetime. Then, if & when you find out, you don't want to think anymore...about anything. At least not for awhile. But you, Drew, keep thinking & keep doing & keep creating...good things...you inspire us all!!! Stay strong, my friend!
  • annmariesabo · 3 months ago
    Drew,
    Wow!!! What an inspiration you are!!! I was diagnosed with Hodgkins Lymphoma Stage 2A in October 2009 and just finished chemo and radiation in May!!! (The bone marrow was horrible but that pain will fade!!!) LIke you I had no symptoms at all just a lump on my neck!
    Please know that you will get through this and win!!!! Keep your thoughts positive and know that with every treatment you have one less to go!
    Thanks for the website! I needed it and will be checking back to keep up with your progress!!!

    Take Care!!!
    AnnMarie
  • annmariesabo · 3 months ago
    Drew, Okay just so you know and everyone else I was diagnosed in October 2008 not 2009. I was blaming my absent mindedness on the chemo (which I read can actually happen) but now I am going to start blaming it on your cancer!!!!! Thanks for the website. Please keep posting! I want to hear how you are doing!!! It will be over before you know it and it really does make you a better person!!!!

    Take Care!!!!
    AnnMarie
  • staceyfischer · 3 months ago
    Hats off to you, Drew. A most excellent and a most creative way of putting cancer in it's place! I too got my diagnosis in May: breast cancer on May 19, 2009 - one day before my 41ist birthday. PARTY! I've got somewhere between Stage 2 & 3 BC (TBD upon surgery this winter, followed by radiation - the fun just doesn't stop!). I'm on my 10th session of 27 freakin' sessions (1 per week) of chemo (also known as "better living through chemistry"). At week 5, I had a progress check ultrasound, and my tumor's overall mass was down by 52% (also known as kicking ass). And even though chemo is a bitch, I figure that I'm sending the cancer back to the cess pool from which it came, by marinating it in a new cess pool!

    Your site is a really great idea. If you ever need any design participation, give a shout - you sound like a blast to collaborate with. And I know it's been mentioned before, but your positive/full can of whup ass attitude will most definitely aim that cancer to the door. I know it's been helping my fuzzy-headed soul. Peace.
  • Lisa Reid · 3 months ago
    Ive been blaming alot of things for giving me cancer this past year, my gigantic phone bill gave me cancer, the loud breather in my yoga class gave me cancer, the cold weather gave me cancer, that stylist that made me meth blonde gave me cancer...but you know, maybe I had it all wrong, maybe it was your cancer that gave me cancer, so yeah, I blame drew's cancer for giving me cancer.
  • Thomas · 3 months ago
    Hey Drew!
    God am I glad to have found your site! I'm a six year survivor of Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma (stage 2). Back then I missed my chance to blame EVERYTHING on my cancer. But now that there's your cancer to take all the blame, I can make up for the missed opportunities.
    It's just amazing to read your story and immediately feel a connection. I think some things you can only understand when you've been there, done that, stained the t-shirt (after losing the battle over nausea and Zofran failed to work). And yes, bone marrow biopsy was a personal highlight for me as well.
    I was struck by the headline of this site because "That's not what I ordered!" was my excact response when my doctors delivered the diagnosis - only I said it in German, so unfortunately I can't sue you for copyright violation. Damn it! So that's another thing I blame on your cancer.
    I was 29 years old when I was diagnosed. Chemo was... well I don't need to explain it to you. But let me tell you one thing: When you're done with chemo and you've got the "all clear" (notice: I said "when" NOT "if") your strength's coming back and you're beginning to feel like a proper human being again (and not a "patient") that's when the best stage of your life begins. You probably won't be a copletely different person but - although you might be physically weakend - you are going to feel so much stronger than before. Consider yourself as a member of a very exclusive club. I think we all could have done perfectly well without this membership for which we didn't apply - or should I say "we didn't order" - but as we didn't have had any choice we might as well enjoy the benefits that follow after the rather tough initiation ceremony. There is so much to look forward to, once you're done with the nervewrecking part. There will be less things you will take for granted. There will be those little things that you will appreciate much more than you did before. There will be a lot of things that simply won't bother you anymore. There are great times ahead!
    I have never before written a comment on any public internet forum - which explains the epic volume of my first attempt (sorry!!!). But I felt the urge to wish you the best of luck (not that you need it)! I think your "Blame Drew's Cancer"-page is an excellent idea. I suppose you have a great family, fatastic friends and you meet a lot of amazing people over this site but if you feel in need of an extra supporter you can count me in.
    With the BEST wishes, Thomas
  • katiescarlettohara · 3 months ago
    Stage 4 Glioblastoma Multiforme - cancer speak for the worst brain cancer there is! Diagnosed with 10 months to live...I just celebrated my 7th year with NO recurrence. ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING! Hate to sound cliche, but you have to stay positive AND program yourself to LIVE. Humor was my coping skill, and always twisted because I enjoy the shock value. Don't surround yourself with negative peeps either. Need to give a shout out to Jesus too, faith goes both ways - believing in him in dark times AND belieiving I would survive.
  • martinrowe · 3 months ago
    Hey Drew,
    I had Hodgkins Lymphoma right thru the 80's (82-90) - it came back 3 times after my initial diagnosis. I was determined to never give in 'cos I had too many things I wanted to do (I was 19 when first diagnosed).
    Well I've done plenty since then with the help of great family & friends.
    Now married and have 2 great kids - Life is fantastic.
    Remember, Livestrong! This disease is only one very small part of who you are.

    Never give in!
  • annmariesabo · 3 months ago
    Sorry to hear about the 3 times, but your experience gives everyone hope that we could cope with it again if God forbid we have to! Thanks!!!!
  • Anil Arora · 3 months ago
    I was diagnosed in February of 2008 with Stage 1 Hodgkins Lymphoma. After that, not only did I go though the ordeal of all of the tests and chemo, I ended up going through a divorce at the same time.

    I blamed the cancer.

    But regardless, I had a great group of friends and family who supported me. And with their support, I fought hard against the cancer. I didn't let it have me.

    I ended up blogging my experience with cancer as well as other things on my site http://www.anilarora.com. If it helps others, even a little bit, then I've accomplished what I wanted to do.

    Good luck...and you will win
  • Heather · 3 months ago
    I, too, am a Hodgkin's survivor. I was diagnosed in 2004 when I was 27, so this is a big year for me. I have been so anxious to get to that 5-year mark. :) I loved reading alot of the comments below. It made me take the time to remember how that period of time was (the nausea, hair loss, sores, and just overall crappy feeling) and to also be grateful for where I am today. I always want to remember my cancer treatments. They made me much more appreciative of things in life. And FYI, from now on when I have a bad day, I'll blame your cancer. Good luck!!
  • staceyfischer · 3 months ago
    Hats off to you, Drew. A most excellent and a most creative way of putting cancer in it's place! I too got my diagnosis in May: breast cancer on May 19, 2009 - one day before my 41ist birthday. PARTY! I've got somewhere between Stage 2 & 3 BC (TBD upon surgery this winter, followed by radiation - the fun just doesn't stop!). I'm on my 10th session of 27 freakin' sessions (1 per week) of chemo (also known as "better living through chemistry"). At week 5, I had a progress check ultrasound, and my tumor's overall mass was down by 52% (also known as kicking ass). And even though chemo is a bitch, I figure that I'm sending the cancer back to the cess pool from which it came, by marinating it in a new cess pool!

    Your site is a really great idea. If you ever need any design participation, give a shout - you sound like a blast to collaborate with. And I know it's been mentioned before, but your positive/full can of whup ass attitude will most definitely aim that cancer to the door. I know it's been helping my fuzzy-headed soul. Peace.
  • staceyfischer · 3 months ago
    Doh. Sorry for double posting. Every once in awhile I have to live up to the hair color: blonde.
  • hdm1980 · 3 months ago
    Yeah, it is definitley like reading a story about my own diagnosis. I was diagnosed about the same way back in 2001, 2 weeks after my 21st birthday! I just came across your page the other day. Kudos to you and your follower's. I wish you the best of luck.
  • artkit · 3 months ago
    Drew...keep fighting and laughing. You're an inspiration to us all.
    My own introduction to this dreaded disease ( two bouts of bladder cancer) was 23 years ago. In Feb. of this year I was diagnosed with prostate cancer and had surgery in May. Because of a positive attitude and my desicion to kick cancer's ass, I was running in road races 4 weeks after surgery and competing in bike races 9 weeks after surgery. I haven't won any yet though. I guess I'll blame your cancer for that.
  • kblackford · 3 months ago
    Drew,
    Today was a bad day for me. My Dad is fighting NCSLC IV. Your attitude is awesome. I started a dedication page for him as well. Would love for you to sign it. Thanks for the positive thoughts. You are doing good things here. Having hope is half the battle.
    http://www.livestrongaction.org/node/19850
  • kblackford · 3 months ago
    Thanks Drew! I appreicate all you encouragement. Maybe looking at a blood transfusion next week..but still fighting. Take care.
  • lauraimermanangels · 3 months ago
    Hey Drew!!
    So glad to be following you on here now!! You are already an inspiration to so many!! Keep feeling good and keep "blaming your cancer". I am a 4 yr. breast cancer survivor who can relate to what you are going through. I know that your humor, positive outlook and amazing friends and family will get you through all this in no time. We are here to help you too buddy. We'll be happy to connect you to many of our amazing survivors to share their stories, wisdom and inspiration! Not to mention they probably need to blame your cancer for stuff too!! ;) Anything we can do for you at Imerman Angels...Just ask!! You got it! Stay strong! Feel good!!
  • MelanieHaiken · 3 months ago
    Hi Drew! I write about cancer too. I hate cancer, and I blame all sorts of things on it; everything from my cat throwing up to the fact that I can't have Thanksgiving with my dad anymore as I lost him to cancer. I'm a senior editor at Caring.com, a website for those caring for family members, ill or aging. I'm in charge of everything related to cancer. I'd really like to interview you and write a post about your blog. Or we can email if that's easier.
  • Lisa · 3 months ago
    Today outside I stepped on a bee that stung me, and then hopped away in pain only to step on another one! I blame drew's cancer.
  • Ann Tydeman Solomon · 3 months ago
    My nephew is about 4 years out from a diagnosis of Hodgkins - and doing great. He's in China right now, either in Beijing or sailing down the Yanghtze River....

    And now I know who to blame for the dog tearing through the window screen and running around the neighborhood (she's home)...I'll blame Drew's cancer!!
  • FloxyDotHisMercy · 3 months ago
    Dear Drew i can identify with you. About a year ago i had my last chemo for hodgkins lymphoma and since then i ve been doing quite fine. You were rigth when you said that cancer does not have you. You are the one that has cancer.

    My experience made me realise that what kills most people who die of cancer is fear of the disease and not the disease itself. Am happy you have enough courage to look fear in the face that the only to fight. For beyond our fears lies the blessing.

    Its encouraging to know that you have a very positive attitude to this challenge. I have won the battle and i know that if you remain quite positive you also will win. Be free to write to me at so we can share experiences. For my mission is to let as much people as possible know that cancer is survivable.
    Be strong.
  • cld00pwe · 3 months ago
    I wish my grandmother had the same mindset you have about your cancer.
    Your a hella strong individual really hope things go well.
  • Anthony Citrano · 3 months ago
    Drew - your perspective and approach are both impressive and inspiring. Bravo.
  • melissaconstanti · 2 months ago
    Right on Drew! It's touching to see someone as motovatin and inspiring as you especially to people who have seen what cancer does. My father was diagnosed with Hodgkins years ago and overcame it with ease. Which I know will be the same for you! He unfortunatly was diagnosed with liver cancer a few years later and passed away a year and a half ago. Hearing stories and seeing webpages like yours always motovate me to educate more people, make others aware and always do fundrasisers to help someday find cures for cancer. My best wishes to you and keep on keepin on!
  • Health_Campus · 2 months ago
    Some good points raised in that post. Will be back to check for more.

    Cheers
    sain-web.com
  • tjjbrayshaw · 2 months ago
    You're awesome. My prayers go out to you for full remission. Can't wait to read more! (And now I forgot what I wanted to say next sooooooo....I "Blame Drew's Cancer!") Cool!
  • hezmanagirl · 2 months ago
    Best. Attitude. Ever. It really helps too!

    I have to say that I'm very optimistic about things because of the (too) many people I've known to have been affected by cancer. Two have my aunts have beaten breast cancer and my daughter's best friend beat three different kinds of cancer before she hit double digits.

    Keep up the great attitude and we'll keep you in our thoughts. That, and keep blaming things on your cancer!
  • gabe · 2 months ago
    very cool strong stuff. looking forward to hearing 100 % cured. then hearing your moving on to kick something else's ass.
  • Brittany · 2 months ago
    I stumbled across something on the internet that made reference to "Blame Drew's Cancer", and was somewhat intrigued as I've been recently diagnosed with Hodgkins Lymphoma. I tend to make a lot of jokes about my cancer (which sometimes makes others uncomfortable), and thought maybe this would be something I could relate to. So, here I am.

    I went to the ER with what I thought was some heart burn and left after having been told I had a tumor the size of a baby's head in my chest. I was kind of shocked to be diagnosed with cancer a month ago, especially since I'm an otherwise healthy 18 year old, but I suppose if I were to pick a cancer, this would be it.

    Anyways, I think what you're doing is awesome, both in terms of talking about cancer and raising money. Plus, I just like that I can relate to your experiences. Thanks for doing something.

    Good luck with the chemo, and kicking cancer's ass. I believe in you.
  • Jose Corona · 2 months ago
    Drew, I just want you to know that I saw you on Winelibrary TV with Gary, and as I am a frequent purchaser I will be contributing, as your situation is very relatable to mine. I was scheduled to depart for the University of Chicago in August of 2002 to begin my undergrad studies and the day before leaving I went to my physician for a last checkup. He noticed the lump on my neck and ordered further testing. Needless to say, I was unable to leave, had to take off school for a year, and take on my Hodgkins Lymphoma. I was lucky enough to catch it in Stage 1A, and after undergoing both chemo for 6 months and radiation for 3 months, I can happily say that it is in remission and has become all but part of my past. I graduated from Stern Business School at NYU (wanted to stay closer to friends and family), and am now in law school at Brooklyn Law. I know what you are going through, but believe in yourself and know that you are going to beat this and rise from it stronger than ever. I know that I have.
  • SoCooLBob · 2 months ago
    Way to go #BlameDrewsCancer
    I'm #BlameDrewsCancer for my new 18 week session of chemotherapy starting tomorrow.
    This will be my sixth round.
    I'm in training to become "ChemoMan"

    I get to try out a newly approved chemical that seems to improve results. My recurrent, low grade, Non-Hodgkins lymphoma is described as not curable but "manageable." "Not life threatening."

    Keep Up The Good Healing
    If Not - #BlameDrewsCancer

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Hcoo2gjSGI
  • joeinaustin · 2 months ago
    Drew,
    I was diagnosed with stage four Hodgkins almost 5 years ago. It had moved from my chest to my lungs. A rough day coming home and telling my previously widowed wife and 5 year old child. Went through the 12 treatments over six months, and have been cancer free ever since. Hang in there buddy, you'll get through it and be ok. Don't give away your records and good shit yet!

    Best,

    Joe
  • Vanessa · 2 months ago
    Drew,
    My grandma died of stage four cancer. I don't know the exact name of it, but it started in her lungs, and spread to her bones. She died in February of '07. My grandfather is in the hospital now with cancer. He might not need chemo, though. It was caught VERY early. I've been taking part in the I #blamedrewscancer thing on Twitter. Because I, like everyone else, like to a scapegoat. However, this is the first time I've read this blog. It's amazing, and I think you're a very, very strong person for being so lighthearted about the situation as a whole. It takes a very special kind of person to pull something like this off. And I, like so many others, have faith that you'll kick this cancer right in the ass. Just keep this positive outlook! Reading this has given me some comfort in my grandpa.
    Thank you,
    Vanessa
    @vee__vee
  • crystalw · 2 months ago
    OK...I blame my Cancer (breast 2002) and my 17 year old son's Cancer (Leukemia June 2009) on yours. NEVER GIVE UP THE FIGHT....Cancer is the enemy and it looks like you are leading a good army of fighters...
  • kali2112nlb · 2 months ago
    CANCER SUCKS!!
  • Liore Klein · 2 months ago
    Hi Drew,
    I discovered your blog from a link off of Lindsey Goldhagan's memorial page on facebook. Amazing thing you've got going on here. Reading your blog and seeing your outlook on everything, you remind me so much of Lindsey and her dogged determination to live her life in spite of her cancer. Please, keep it up. You're doing a fantastic thing. And don't you worry, I'm definitely going to #BlameDrewsCancer.
    Peace, love, and plenty of cancer beatdowns,
    Liore Klein
  • J.D. Everett · 2 months ago
    What am I going to blame stuff on after you defeatdrewscancer? Politicians I guess.

    I was just checking out GOGII that looks awesome. Any chance it will come out for ancient Blackberries?

    I have been dreading getting a cyst removed from my Paratid gland on Monday, won't know for sure the nature of it until then. So I have been ascribing every ache and pain, lack of sleep etc to possible cancer. But from now on I won't worry, I'll blame your cancer instead of my hypochondria. Best wishes to you, thanks for the DDC program, it's going to help a lot of people.
  • Alfy101 · 2 months ago
    Dear Drew, as 140 Characters is not enough, decided to pop over here, I don't have cancer, but how ever I do have extremely bad chronic pain, and lost the custody of my children due to it, but your humor, your grace, and your wonderful sense of humor, brings me up every-day, I don't talk much to you but, I wanted you to know you are an inspiration for me!
  • Robin ~ PENSIEVE · 1 month ago
    Awesome!! We have a scapegoat for EVERYTHING now! Thank you!!

    {{& heard you're doing well, so that makes it even bettah}}

    :)
  • sarca30 · 1 month ago
    just found @drew today, strangely enough im waiting on biopsy results on possibly having breast cancer..im only 38..but ive always been an overachiever!! Ive tried to find ways to laugh and joke at the uncertainties asoften as possible... and have discovered that most of my friends (whom i love regardless) dont quite have the same sense of humor as i do, and the ones who can laugh with me are the ones i hold tight...thanks for giving me something to blame their lack of a sense of humor on!
  • Matt · 1 month ago
    I feel you man.

    Had this same cancer in my early years as a child (in remission since '97) and I hope you have great doctors and the same great results as I did. Best of luck to you and everyone in your family!

    God Bless
  • aprilmatthews · 1 month ago
    hello drew my name is april. i would really like to share my story with you because it is a somewhat chaotic one. Last September i was admitted into the hospital because i was coughing up blood. i was in the hospital for about a week. while in the hospital they did a biopsy of one of the lymph nodes on the left side of my neck. i was released from the hospital and was only told to follow up with my primary care physician because they said i had pnemona and i was told i would get a phone call with the results of the biopsy. well i didnt receive a phone call. i was a 23yr old mother of 2 with 2 jobs. so i figured "if there was something wrong with me i would have already gotten a phone call. so i thought nothing of it and tried to go on with my life. in april of 2009 one week before his 3rd birthday my two year old son died. it was so devastating i went into a depression. i got really sick but everyone thought it was cuz i wasnt eating right and not getting any sleep. on august 19th, 2009 i had to go back to the doctor because the left side of my neck was really swollen and i was just real sick all the time. with me i took the results of the biopsy which i had to go down to the hospital and requested but was not able to read because it was a bunch of medical mumbo jumbo...at the doctors apointment on august 19th i was informed that i have Hodgkins Disease (Lymphoma}, Nodular Sclerosis type. I was also informed that i have had this disease since september of 2008. why i was never told or never received not 1 phone call i do not know but i started my treatment on september 10, 2009 and will have to under go 6-8 months of it. i have already lost my hair :( and feel horrible all the time. thanx for listening
  • flipitreal · 1 month ago
    you're in my thoughts and prayers, april. You will be ok.
  • aprilmatthews · 1 month ago
    thanx a lot!!!
  • Patricia Zglinski · 1 month ago
    Hey Drew,

    I am in awe of your positive attitude! You are one in a million. I will pray for you. I just know you will kick this ugly things ass. This cancer had no idea what it was in for.. you drop kick this bad boy!
  • Gail Blackledge · 1 month ago
    Dear Drew, I've watched your shows and love them. You are the BEST!
    You will beat this cancer with your determination and your willingness to give to others.
    I love you. Everyone I know LOVES you!
    Fight, Fight Fight! OHIO!!! Loved that opening.
  • Kim · 1 month ago
    You are an inspiration! Thank you for taking the time to write your blog.

    Cancer Sucks!

    Much love,
    Kim
  • michelleinpa · 1 month ago
    Well, I don't know you - and we certainly have never ya know...but nonetheless, I am now going to blame MY stage 2 cervical cancer on YOUR cancer :)

    Awesome site..thanks so much
  • flipitreal · 1 month ago
    hey. nice outlook. seriously, when i found out i had non-hodgkins lymphoma, i had just given birth to my baby. Sooo that explained all the difficult symptoms i experienced during my pregnancy! (yeah i thought pregnancies were typically hard, with bouts of asthma and fevers and lumps and difficulty in breathing and all that). Anyway, i had straight black waist-length hair at that time (which i took pride in). When i found out i had to undergo chemo, i figured, i enjoyed my hair for a long time, a new look would be cool. Life is short, so why bother with worries and bad thoughts and what other people would think? So with the bald new 'do and a ready smile, i strutted like a model, holding my head up high. Nobody would have guessed about what i had, unless i told them. i continued living and conquering my dreams. We're bigger, stronger, smarter and better than cancer. Life goes on.
  • deniseshaw · 3 weeks ago
    Drew, thanks for the positive message.
    I hope all the blame has made your cancer run like h*ll. My family has been fortunate not to have the cancer experience, my friends not so much. I used to walk every year for the cure until my work place made it political. Now I just donate money.

    I blame bad politicians (redundant, I know) on Drew's tumor.

    Best of luck.